About me: I live in Southern California (SoCal) and I'm a non-denominational christian whose patient, kind and nonjudgmental. I’m single, never been married and I don’t have any kids. I love viewing art, listening to music and visiting botanical gardens. I love fantasy fiction novels, movies, games etc... I'm a big Winnie the Pooh and Kuromi fan. I'm a confident Black BBW who is in a season of transition. Every day I strive to be and do a little bit better than yesterday. I’m also a hopeless romantic who has their head in the clouds who still believes I can find a fairytale romance with plenty of cringe worthy moments lol (a girl can dream right). I love playing games and watching anime. I’m introverted but I love learning new things and traveling to new places. I can appear serious at first but most of the time I'm just shy or nervous. I value individuality that does not go against God‘s will or commands. We were all created with different gifts, talents and personalities. Our backgrounds and experiences allow us to encourage inspire and motivate those we encounter. I believe in being humble, honest and transparent with myself God and others. I’m also a woman who believes that chivalry is not dead and hoping to find a gentleman.

What I'm looking for: I’m looking for someone who’s more concerned with compatibility and building trust, who’s mutually respectful and understanding. I’m looking for a man who’s secure enough in their masculinity to appreciate a strong woman and willing to explore non sexual forms of intimacy(currently practicing abstinence). The goal is to create a bond through friendship that will act as a strong foundation for a long term relationship. Lastly I'm looking for someone who is supportive, open minded and flexible. Being patient, gentle and kind is also important. Of course anything I ask for I’m able and willing to reciprocate. I don’t have a preference on race or size so if you message me I hope you don’t either. Age range of 30-45 would be preferred. Open to long distance within the U.S. if there's intent to relocate. Ultimately compatibility means more to me than location so if you think we'd be a good match send me a message. If there's enough trust built overtime, we can find a fair and healthy way to close the gap. If you’ve read this far and you’re sincere about getting to know each other, send me a message with your favorite game or anime series.