Hey! I’m going to give this a shot. To save ppl from reading my whole post and thinking they’ve wasted time I’m going to list a few things about me first then go into a little bit more detail. To some they are red flags, turn offs, or other cruel terms I’ve heard people tell me. This is who I am. I am still human and I still deserve love. I know someone out there will love me for me.

1). Single mom. (My son is very important to me and a potential partner should love kids)

2). I am a bbw - or maybe even a ssbbw if you want to be technical. I am around 400lbs. So yes I am a whole lot of woman.

3). I have hidradenitis suppurativa. Please Google, i don’t want to explain it at length here. Simply put it’s a skin condition

4). I also have HSV2. I take medicine daily for it. It’s way more common than people think. Too many are unaware they even have it because they’re asymptomatic. I only found out when I told my doctor to do the blood test for it.

Okay, so if you’re still reading: Thank You!!! I know Reddit probably isn’t the best place to look for “love” but it doesn’t hurt to try. I’m more in the western part of NC. Looking to find a meaningful connection (and hopefully long term relationship) with someone local or within a reasonable driving range. If you’re close by that’s great!!! But hey, no I do not want to just dirty talk or swap nudes. Just no. Gtfo with that.

As mentioned, I am a single mom. My son goes to his dad’s a few days a week so I am able to work. Speaking of, I work full time on night shift. That might change when the new school year starts.

As far as looks go, yes I’m a big woman. Unfortunately, I don’t have the huge breasts that bigger women usually get 😅. But I’d like to think they’re a good handful if that matters. I’m around 5’3, glasses, and my hair is naturally a dark blonde but I do prefer keeping it light.

I’m mostly an introvert and a homebody. I mostly love to read and play video games. I’m not a huge gamer girl, maybe more casual. The most current games I play are WoW and BG3. I love Dragon Age, I’m eagerly awaiting the next installment. Other games I enjoy are The Sims, Hogwarts Legacy, Spyro, ACNH, Mario (most any and all kinds- Super Mario Bros 3 has always been my fav so I always make sure to get it for every new Nintendo device). Of course other miscellaneous games over the years….

As mentioned I am more of a homebody. I will mostly be content staying home sitting/laying/cuddling with a partner watching tv/ movies, reading, or just being on our phones in quiet companionship. There are some activities and events I like. Bowling, the Zoo, planetarium shows, the Renaissance Festival, and of course to frequent park visits for the little one.

Music is gonna be a little bit of most everything. Buuuut, you probably won’t catch me listening to jazz or bluegrass- sorry. Classical is well … it’s great but I’d probably only listen if I need to relax. We can always swap songs 😄 a lot will be based on mood. I do have some repetitive go-tos. Don’t be hating when I play my 80s, 90s, and early 00s!

So that’s me summed up in a post! Oh I didn’t even mention shows or movies - guess I can save that for the messages. I’m not going to share my pic right away. I want someone I can connect with first before physical appearance plays a factor.

Thanks for reading and hopefully we can talk more! 😘