Lemme get right into it, I'm here because the last few days, I've just craving the company of someone.. be it a platonic conversation or more, l miss the company of someone consistent. If we get along, Nothing is off the table.. I only ask a few things.. Please be SINGLE(Separated but living together doesn't count, also no non-mongamy), and Childfree.. those are my only two non negotiables. I'll be pretty direct about a few things, I absolutely don't appreciate anyone who talk shit about their ex(s) or is stuck in the past... Please leave that stuff in the past where it belongs, as I had to do the same, or else its not possible to make space for something better and I feel like I end up being a tool for validation.

In all honesty, I have no expectations, and I'm not one to fall in love with the first person to give attention or affection. I'm emotionally available, spent a lot of time on self reflection and am constantly working on building Emotional maturity and intelligence. There's never gonna be any pressure of any kind for "more" irrespective of the vibe being there or not. Physically I'm 5'9, slim/petite for a guy and find myself attracted to someone petite as well. I consider myself alt, so all black, long curly hair going below my shoulders now, tattoos and I tend to find myself attracted to someone who's also a bit alt /goth /witchy. Tattoos are a BIG thing for me as i have a few and plan on getting more as soon as i can. Im also very much comfortable with calls(both voice or video) and would prefer someone who doesn't shy away from the same :). And I genuinely request that we keep it all sfw, I'm a demi-ace, so I don't appreciate anything s*xual unless I'm emotionally attached and invested.

Finally moving along to hobbies, interests and things I love, or am passionate about in no particular order : Plants, hydroponics, cannabis(I grow and smoke) , shrooms, microgreens, Photography, Mental health, self reflection, journaling, stationery, snail mail, food (cooking baking and eating), origami, astrophysics, microbiology, quantum mechanics, astronomy and astrophotography, scented candles, bath bombs, homesteading and self sustained living (not completely off grid, I need my conveniences lol), star wars, Legos, anime, Nintendo, Zelda, LOTR, Harry potter, Dragons, ravens, birds, bees, flowers, nature, weed, magic shroomies, hydroponics, mountains, beaches, wide open highways... all of the above and more 🥰. Ohhhh and I'm also attending my first big concert in September, Avril lavigne 🖤. I usually listen to a lot of 90s and 2000s music, leaning towards nu metal. I love road trips as well, I took one recently, going deeper into the Rockies to soak in some natural hot springs and it was a fucking phenomenal trip.

I absolutely love animals and had my own doggo as well. He sadly passed away this February and volunteering at his clinic is what kept me going. It was totally unexpected and I'm honestly still grieving his loss. He would've been 10 in may so it's been a rough time. However it's not a constant state of mind, only when I miss having him around. But something truly amazing came out of it and now im enrolled in school to upgrade some grades. Then off to college for 4 months to become a veterinary technical assistant. For now I'm only volunteering on Thursdays at the veterinary clinic I used to take my him to, so you can definitely expect a ton of puppy, kitten and horsie pics 🐶😺🐴. I'm also sending my boy's ashes to space in the first quarter of next year, which I'm looking forward to seeing in person from California . And later this year I'll be going to the renaissance fest being held in Minnesota with my chosen brother. And yes I'm gonna be going completely dressed up lol.

Chats only, and no preference for location or ethnicity. I should also mention that i am on the spectrum, have adhd(medicated), and fibromyalgia, both of which are well managed and wont be "your" problem to deal with. I also have a fair amount of complex - ptsd but I have done ART (similar to emdr) and after years of practice, being mindful of the other person, has become a natural thing for me... so no endless rambles about myself XD, my goal is to get to know you as well lol. But I am as direct as they come, so I prefer direct communication as well. No conversation is too scary or difficult or off the table for me 🤷🏻‍♂️.