I'm a fat, fun, neurospicy (ADHD) weirdo who cares about kindness, authenticity, altruism, critical thinking, connection, equity, and understanding. I have many introverted friends, but would especially like to be able to connect with someone whose energy matches mine a little more closely. I want to meet weird, progressive, caring people who like to hang out in person. Let's chat for a few, then meet for a casual coffee or beer if we connect.

You should be between 30-47, as this is the age group I most often have the most in common with. I connect well with other weirdos. I love when people can share what they love with me and also listen to and appreciate things that I'm into.

Things of note: I'm non-religious, fat, progressive, underemployed, direct, 420 friendly, and nerdy. You don't have to match with me exactly, but we have to be compatible enough on these things to not drive one another nuts and/or to be attracted to each other. I am ONLY looking for platonic things right now.

Some of my hobbies: Hanging with friends, board games, video games, TV watching, learning German and Danish, Travel (going to Denmark next month), walking and biking (low key), artsy stuff, musical stuff, building things, cooking/baking, computer stuff, sci-fi/fantasy, sociology, psychology, a nice tripel or sour, getting out of my house, quiz nights, reading, IDK, a lot of stuff.

I will not respond to people who don't respond thoughtfully to me sharing myself by sharing some details about themselves also. It doesn't have to be lengthy, or witty just genuine. You can just tell me a few lines and then ask me about my day if you want, but I need to hear a bit about you. Age, location, what you connected to in my post, etc.

I take the time to read through and reply to people one at a time. I have room in my life for more than one friend, but can only balance getting to know 1-2 people at a time, so there may be a delay in my reply. I will respond to people even months later though, so if you see this and are intrigued, feel free to tell me about yourself. Thanks for taking the time to read my post and hopefully we'll speak soon.