In a couple of months I’ll hit 30, and I’m coming to the realization that although I enjoy my company and my cat, I have been denying myself love and companionship for far too long. I thought I was the most unloveable person in the world, but now know that’s simply not true. I’m actually very loveable, kind, thoughtful, and an all-around beautiful person. By no means am I perfect but I can finally say I love myself and I want to share my life with someone (or more, but not necessary).

My biggest issue is that because I spent most of my life thinking the opposite, I don’t really know how to communicate to others interest or reciprocate it unless it’s through superficial right swipes on dating apps. I feel a bit developmentally stunted in this arena, though I’m fully aware that I’m capable of being a sensual and sexual being because I’ve allowed myself to experience these pleasures in the past.

I’m looking for someone who can be patient with me as I learn how to effectively flirt, won’t rush me into sex even though I enjoy it very much, and who has similar values. I’m also actively changing my eating habits to lose weight for a healthier life so any encouragement here is appreciated.

About me: - heavily spiritual with an open heart - sometimes I need substantial alone time - Passionate (about many things) - 5’5” - In graduate school

About you: - Have an open heart and willingness to learn - Passionate about many things (eventually me 😘) - Must not be allergic to cats - I do prefer men and women who are taller than me (5’9” is preferred but please just be honest about this. I also think this is because right now I’m a bigger gal and I’m afraid of breaking people)

To weed out spam and to ensure we have similar values, let me know what you think about the state of the world and how we can make it a better place for all. I want to know what you know about world conflicts, our impact on Earth, and if pineapple belongs on pizza.

Thank you for reading my TEDxTalk lol