If you're looking for someone honest, affectionate, smart and kind, read on!
I'm also pretty funny once I get to know you.

I'm only interested in someone who is looking for something long-term and is willing to go slow.
To give you an idea of me and what I want... bullet points!

About me

• I'm all sorts of nerdy (whatever you're into, I'll probably be/get into) but don't think I look it. I work out and take care of myself. I'm 174cm tall and weigh about 75kg. We can swap pics early if you'd like.
• I love music, maybe even more than I love games (all kinds), and I have way too many (read: not enough) headphones. I also love singing but I'm kind of shy about it.
• My primary love languages are touch and acts of service, both giving and receiving.
• I have kind of sensitive skin in the sense that I'll melt no matter where you touch me. Also, I can't stand even the smallest grain of sand or similar in my sheets.
• I'm caring, emotionally intelligent and I've worked a lot on my communication skills in relationships.
• I'm trying to neither conform nor rebel against stereotypical masculinity. I want to be a full human being with a connection to both traditionally "masculine" and "feminine" traits and abilities.
• I grew up as a vegetarian and have stuck with that. I've taken a lot of steps towards veganism and that would be the ideal goal. I'm not judgmental about it and I try to limit my focus to what I can realistically affect. I'm also a pretty good cook.
• I have a good, stable job and I'm really fortunate that I also love what I do.
• I'm clean, don't smoke or do drugs and I rarely drink alcohol. If I do drink, I prefer cider or a cocktail over beer or wine.

My dreams

• I want a partner with whom I can open up those final walls in my heart and be vulnerable. It's scary to truly trust and rely on another person but at the same time I... crave it even?
• I want a warm and welcoming home together with you, open to friends and family.
• I want to build a family and raise them in a progressive, equal household.

Day-to-day

• I want a diverse life with a balance of activities outside and inside our home. Shopping, dates and forest walks on one hand and movie nights, board game nights or just cuddling on the couch with a cup of tea on the other hand.
• I want to live a healthy life, eating well and exercising regularly. I'm very flexible on the details.
• I like to play games (PC/Nintendo/VR) when I have the time. I'd love to play together with you, whatever games you like.
• I want to live in a fairly neat and clean household, meaning we make sure to keep it that way together and whatever we can't or won't manage ourselves we can outsource.

If you're on board, send me a message or chat and I'd love to move to any kind of voice chat when you're comfortable.