After ending a very long term relationship, the reality of modern dating hit me hard. Taking a chance here if this is better than other avenues.

I am at the stage of my life where I want to settle down and ready for that but only with the right person, so I am not in rush. I am for the long haul and will stick around no matter what life throws at us (I have evidence to back this up but I can't really put an ex as reference, can I? 🥲) and I am looking for this kind of man too.

Few things about me:

1. Physically, I have tan skin, small and petitle frame. I am 32yrs old, single and no kids but want to get settle down have kids later on.
2. I have good career, make good money and living comfortably
3. I am fun and very outgoing - I love the beach and love to travel
4. I am very independent (but I also want to be taken care of)
5. Not a pet lover (I'm a scared of dogs but I am open to overcome this with boundaries; I don't like cats)

I am mostly attracted to (physically):

1. 27 to 36 yrs old, Southeast Asian, medium build (not attracted to skinny or too big), not too tall (maybe max height is 6ft but at least 5'6").

Other things that I consider the most:

1. Hygienic
2. I don't do drugs or smoke, so I don't like a man who is into these things
3. Single, want to settle down and kids
4. No to overly political
5. Good listener and can carry a conversation

I am open to dating guys outside Asia, but please make sure that you are ready (I am) for the distance and are willing (same here) to meet either in Asia or somewhere else if things work out.

If you think this is for you, please send a short introduction of yourself or at least say something than just "Hi" or "I want to talk", with your picture (there should at least an intial attraction for both of us). For all other things, let's get to know each other and see for ourselves.