Hello everybody. My name is Julian, I am 30 years old and I am searching for a nice woman for a (hopefully) long lasting relationship. I'm 1,78m tall (about 5'10") and weigh about 100kg (220lbs). I have brown hair, a beard, blue eyes and wear glasses. You can see me here.
I am a shy and introverted guy. I can come over as quiet but have the potential to talk and talk for a long time. I try my best to be kind and understanding but can fail at that like every human. I do have a darker sense of humor and am quite sarcastic but I try to label that most of the time (with a 🙃). I'm bad with keeping a conversation going so there might be times where we just "sit and stare" at each other (virtually of course). I try my best, though. I am a big cat person and do want to own one or two in the future. I don't have anything against other animals except for spiders. Please don't bring a spider near this arachnophobic. I'm childfree (planning a vasectomy in the future) and an atheist but don't have anything against other religions as long as you don't try to convert me. I have never been in a relationship before so keep in mind that I am a total beginner. Ask me anything you might want to know that I forgot to mention here.
When it comes to hobbies, I'm a pretty boring person. I like to listen to music, mostly alternative/indie rock, I like to read and I like to (binge) game. I mostly play singleplayer games like Stardew Valley, Souls-likes, Witcher 3 and Nintendo games (like Pokemon or Zelda). You can classify me as a homebody, if you want to. I get hot very easily and thus detest the sun (damn you, great ball of fire). I hiked in Austria in my youth and might want to repeat that, though. I know how to drive a motorbike although I don't own one anymore. I own a bass but don't really know how to play it. I do want to learn though. So hit me up if you can teach me. I go to the gym regularly to work on my weight. With slow progress.
Let's quickly talk about what I would like in a partner. I obviously have my preferences. I do prefer thinner women, so ranging from skinny to modestly overweight, I would say. I do not care what ethnicity you have. I have a thing for arabian and indian women, though, so hit me up if you are one (and tell me your ring size should you have a sweet accent). I do not care about height (yes, that also holds true when you are taller than me) and hair color (bonus points for red hair, though). I would love to see a picture of you in the first week of writing to not waste any of our time should I just not feel any kind of attraction (you can also send one in your first message if you are comfortable). Personality wise you should be sweet and kind. Maybe also sarcastic but that is not a must have. It would be nice if we share some hobbies but different hobbies is also good. I don't want someone too clingy, after all. This should not be a dependency but a partnership with mutual respect where everyone can also do their own thing. To end this paragraph: I would like someone close to me. So Germany and its adjacent countries would be nice. Somewhere in Europe would also be acceptable. If you come from another country then meeting in the future and maybe relocating would be a thing to discuss.
If you want to give me a try, just write me a chat message or DM. We can even switch to Discord for voice messages if you want to. Please don't be someone that ghosts others. Just clearly say so if you want to end a conversation, I will do the same. I thank you for reading to the end and wish you a good day.