I prefer LDR because I want to keep our relationship from my family and friends a secret (for awhile, maybe 6mons to 1 year). Dating locally just makes this difficult.

Now, for short term dating, here’s the minimum requirements:

I want a man who is willing to push me to get disciplined. There’s a schedule I’ve been trying to follow through but I seem to be lacking some external motivation/push.

I want a man who over explains to counter my overthinking-ness.

I want a man who is patient and willing to give emotional support as I work on my goals.

About me:

I’ve been called sweet but I’m not sweet all the time. 😅 I try to make everyone I talk to comfortable and at ease.

I like sharing the mundane with my partner. It makes me feel closer. I also like spending time taking care of my partner’s emotional needs. No pressure to share but I’m always available.

Physically overweight but working on losing weight and becoming healthy.

Mentally undiagnosed but I do suffer symptoms of depression and anxiety.

I am not perfect and I don’t expect you to be, just be honest about yourself and I would do the same.

If you are not comfortable with exchanging selfies, video/voice calls, and daily chats, then we won’t work.

Would appreciate it if you include your age and location in your message 😊

If, by some miracle, we actually get along well and you want a long term relationship with me, here’s what I expect my husband to be i.e. my nonnegotiables: - loves me (tell me how you show your love) - cares about my happiness but also honest enough to leave the relationship once they don’t feel happy anymore - willing to be childfree - financially independent and prefers to have our household finances be: the husbands’ money is both their money, the wife’s money is her money

Let me know about your nonnegotiables.