Please be 30

A bit about me: I love old school turn based jrpg's (SaGa Frontier, Chrono Trigger, Wild Arms, I can go on), tabletop rpg's (D&D, 7th Sea, etc.), and music (such as stoner metal/rock, hair metal, some hip-hop, although I like many things).

For the boring stuff: No kids, never married. I work from home and spend my days working on reports. More interesting stuff: I am a dog mom (her name is Honey Havok) and snake lover (all animals, really), liberal, love to cook, a bit of a wrestling mark (AEW, GCW, NJPW, etc.), and love to learn new things.

The real stuff: I am demi/asexual, and have depression and anxiety. This means I am not always the easiest woman to deal with and my moods can fluctuate. I try not to take my feelings out on others though, I'm just a bit of a crybaby.

In general, I am pretty laid back, have an odd sense of humor (give me all your dad jokes and dark humor). I'm also a little spooky in that I love taxidermy and wet specimens. I don't have a huge collection (yet) but it's growing slowly.

As for the kind of men I enjoy...I tend to like them nerdy, strong, and intimidating. If people are generally scared of you, I'm probably already interested in you. Tattoos are a plus as is a well-kept, very short beard. Mohawks are one of my weaknesses. I also greatly value good communication skills and a sense of humor. I would like for us to be able to express ourselves without fear of judgement and be able to laugh at the absurdity of life together. I love the written word and appreciate men that are intelligent, witty, and able to participate in a little banter. Make me fall for your words and mind.

I am ideally looking for a non-smoking 30 nerdy and/or alt guy with a good personality, similar interests, is in or near the US (possibly open to someone who would relocate to the northeast but I am flexible on this as I work remotely), and who is open to something serious after we get to know each other and build up a close friendship. However, I am open to just friendship as opposed to romance as well so don't let this scare you.

If anything in my post sparks your interest; feel free to message me with a little about yourself, a picture so I can put a face to the name would be nice but not required, and why you chose to message me. Bonus Points for dog or reptile pictures.

I don't mind sharing pictures over Discord or something if we connect and feel like there is potential but this is something to build up to.