Nice normal, occasionally goofy, maybe even a little funny, single 41-year-old introvert looking for some folks to chat with here and there. Sometimes I can talk throughout the day. Sometimes not at all. That's adulting folks sometimes I have stuff to do I'm sure you do too. More often than not I can be found looking for conversation in the middle of the night when I can't sleep for whatever reason.

I'm sort of kind of new to this. Have been experimenting a bit and finding my feet as it were. Looking for non-judgmental SINGLE guys to chat with who are right around my age range. Give or take 5-10 years in either direction. Not necessarily opposed to some flirty messages but don't want it to be the full-on of our convos.

Looking to learn and grow as a person and experiment with all kinds of things. Not going to lie though would love to find a long-term FWB thing where I have an online-only play partner who wants to help me explore some fun fantasies. Just don't be weird about it. I mean I know this is the internet but c'mon.

This of course is not the entirety of what I'm looking for. I'd like to find honest-to-goodness real people to chat with. Could be about anything from our music interests to what makes us smile. Or whatever is on our minds that day. Being able to have a deep thoughtful conversation one minute/day and then have a silly/goofy conversation the next is a plus.

I also have no interest in exchanging pictures until we've gotten to know each other well and it will only happen way down the line once trust is established. This is for a variety of reasons including my career, and need for privacy and honestly, it's just a personal preference.

I'll leave it here for now. But will say that messages that have no substance and those that can't carry on a conversation please don't bother. My time is precious and I'd like to spend it getting to know folks that want to get to know me.

This isn't about killing boredom for me, this is a sincere effort to put myself out into the world that often scares the crap out of me on a social level. If you send a "hey" and don't hear back, you know why. If you do reply tell me about yourself, and what you're looking for.

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