Hi! thank you for stopping to read this. i'm a 37 year old single guy from the great pacific northwest of the usa looking for someone truly serious in putting the effort into a connection. Yes i know we have all read that many times in this group and that so many have tried but i truly mean it. I understand that it takes work to hold a conversation but folks we are adults and we can put the effort. Work through the awkward stuff which i know all too well to the best of our abilities and just hang out.

About me: i am a nerd, a big star wars star trek lord of the rings harry potter nerd. I know star wars and star trek the best but i can keep up with the other ones and you may just be able to get me to watch your favorite. Spread my interests out. I am a big gamer with it being a big passion and i could show you my collection and really surprise you i think. I'm across the board from retro to semi current (PS4 and XBOX one) i love music and just like with games i can show you so much. From 80's 90's disney movie music nick channel music video game electronic 8-bit and so on. Something for everyone. One of my main passions in life is being the rock to someone in their time of need. Life has put me through the ringer more than once an it's safe to say i understand what dealing with depression anger self esteem issues and general dark thoughts are like and that sometimes you just need someone to hold onto once in a while and to listen to you. I like to be that person if you'll let me. I am trying to get out my shell a lot more these days. Pushing myself to make friends and to make posts like this and others. I'd like to just chat about whatever with you. Please come get to know me.

Know you may wonder about the NSFW tag, Women i will be fully honest with you. I am looking for a friend with benefits in my life. BUT and a big but (heh) that is not my only need or want. I am perfectly capable of keeping that out of a conversation. I am not a 18 year old only thinking with my crotch and if you make it clear to me you do not want that in a conversation at best all i will do is joke adult to adult but no hitting on you or anything. I'm capable of it. If you would like to be able to play i want a friend as well as playing. I want to make that completely clear. I may feel the need to have some fun but i am not a mindless man who only wants that. Maybe you don't believe that off the bat so let me prove it.

thank you for reading all this and have a good day if you reach out or not.