I'm a 44 year old divorced dad of two kids under 10 with 50/50 custody. I've been divorced for just about 3 years and have healed, and starting to put myself out there more. About a year ago I made a connection on reddit which I've been chasing, and have not found it on Hinge (online dating). The matches are there, but at this age, we all have our "stuff" that we've had to deal with, and you've either dealt with it and have healed and experienced"growth" or you're still dealing with the trauma or fallout of your relationship which you bring to the next.

Someone that’s committed to this growth is very attractive to me. I’m looking to do life withthat will put actions behind their words. Someone that will grow with me.Someone that will learn with me. Someone that has healed.

More about me - I'm 6' feet tall with a dad bod that I'm working on it with strength training, (and down 20 lbs so far…) an ENFJ, vegetarian, Outside of working out, I'm into football (and a defending Fantasy Football Champion), was at an NBA game last night, and am just about to wrap up coaching basketball before I transition to softball. I also just finished closet remodel, so I also have some DIY skills :). I am readingThe Alchemist, and about to start watching the latest episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm.

I'm stable in that I have a great career in IT, my kids, a nice house, but what's missing is someone to share that with. Not that I need someone, but I'm at a point where I'm ready and not dealing with the past and excited about the future and the potential of meeting someone. I'm located in the Midwest (MN), but am open to anyone that's "done the work," or has healed from their past and excited about the potential to meet someone. What are you excited about? What's attractive to me is when someone is passionate about something or looking to make the world a better place. I'm really open to location as a great connection is someone I would travel to see.

I'm a #dadgirl who's also a supporter (Ally) for those in the GLTBAQ community and progressive in my politics.

If you’re still interested, include some information about yourself, and if you send your selfie, I’ll send one in return.