Hey! I am Adriano, 34 years old and from Portugal. My timezone is literally in the middle of the world so should fit around nicely to almost everyone! UTC 0

I am not really someone that goes around dating. All my (very few) experiences they just happened without looking for it but now I see myself with 34 years ( still young! but starting to get scary xD) without really a partner at my side.

What was the thoughts that brought me here?

My dream goal is to create a family, not instantly so don't worry. But for that dream to happen I have to find someone and I would like to spend some time to actually know each other, have some alone time for some time and then start working on it. If I start adding years to that ( meeting new person, getting to know, move together, spend time together) it starts to become "too late" and I get worried ( health wise for both her and the baby). So I decided I should start actively look for someone!

I decided to give dating apps a try! It is 2024 the digital world should have made the dating world much easier and accessible at one click away! Right?! WRONG!!! Dating apps is really not my thing. I don't identify myself with people in there, since they are mostly extroverts and one night stands and it is not really my thing and let's be honest it also does not work that well for man matches wise.

I am writing this without much hope this is going to work either but at least I gave my shot and see what happens right?

For people that know attachment styles I am someone in the middle of secure/anxious. I have been dating avoidants all my life so I really would like someone different that does not trigger my anxious side so I can be full secure. The bad things is I might have some trust issues because both my relationships ended with them cheating on me and tons of lying. So I kinda need some reassurance and actions which I never got from my avoidant partners. As long as you are not avoidant it should be fine!

I really appreciate long transparent communications, nothing to hide, both for the bad and good times. If there is something that bothers please let me know immediatly so we can actually work on it before things get out of control. I love quality time and if it depends on me the more time spent together the better! Love being on long calls, playing games together(rpgs,strategy,mmo's, survivals) I am not really a shooter person but I am open minded to try.

I used to watch a lot of anime/series in the past ( 10 years ago ) but then I started saving them because I really want to share the experience with someone special so I am anything but up to date to current animes/series!

I work full time remotely so I am also available during work! Some days (once per week~) I go to office but even then I keep checking the phone to talk with my special one.

I recently started going back to the gym and padel to start work on myself more and trying to get out of my comfort zone, both for my own physical and mental health.

If you are around 25-35~, seriously feel free to DM me I would love to get to know you and see how things develop! Worst case scenario we might create a great friendship which is always welcome but my goal is a life partner!