I’ve exhausted my resources and throw my hands up. It’s impossible to find friends. At this point I’m wondering, is it just this age or is there a secret ingredient I’m missing? I’m shooting my shot here, risking embarrassment, and reaching out to likeminded people. If a decent night looks like sharing music and movies over hole-in-the-wall Thai takeout, we’re automatically friends. If a decent day looking like a spontaneous 5am road trip to nowhere in particular blasting music we held onto from our various phases, and a solid appreciation for $1 gas station coffee, then we’re already established as a pair of besties.
As for the basics, I’m 30. I spend 8hrs a day making apps and software look pretty. For the other 16 hours, I’m decently into exploring forests with small creeks and rivers, designing satirical bull for my fluctuating in failing side gig, Risk and MTG, and relentlessly honing in on my femininity, despite the small edge I’ve kept since 16 when I wanted to be a scene girl.
I like to talk, so my responses are relatively delayed because of the walls of useless information I have a tendency to write out. But I hope you do, too.
I love taking time to get to know someone, and much rather prefer long messages versus sloppy awkward meetups. I have no problems with distance and time, as I work from home. Someone around my age and similar interests would be nice.
The secret? I was a NSFW girl. Reddit has seen me nakie. Proof on profile. Nah, not too proud.
List off your favorite songs in very specific situations, the Rob Gordon/John Cusak style and let’s be friends.
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