Hello
Glad to have caught your attention I hope you are having a good day.I promise i will explain what i mean with the title in a bit. I'm working a very slow night shift so thought why not try to make it a bit more interesting buy getting to know someone new
so what is it i am looking for from posting here? I'm not exactly sure apart from the very generic answer that I'm looking for "New friends" but i will try to explain. I'm not looking for anything really specific but i would like to find people i feel i can talk openly with I will almost certainly ask you how you are or something similar and i when i do a actual mean that I want to know how you are and i am probably going to assume you mean the same if you ask to. apart from that well it would be nice if we have at least some interests in common i find that makes it a lot easier to keep a conversation going but I am still very happy to give it a try even if we don't.
So speaking about having interests in common who am I? As the title suggests I am a 35 year old male from Sweden but apart from that. I consider myself a nerd and don't see anything wrong wit that i love most things fantasy from computer games to larp and Dnd. From my interest for larp i have also developed a large interest in a lot of different crafts from leather work and sewing to trying a little bit of blacksmithing, sometimes i wish i could focus enough on one of them to get really good at it but i unfortunately find way to many different things interesting so i chose to believe in the full version of "
Other then that I like to consider myself a caring person i tend to care about how the people around me are feeling and want to help when I can. I try my outmost to be polite and respectful of people around me.
So why is my post M4F?As I have said above i would prefer to have deeper and more personal conversations and unfortunately because of the "toxic masculinity" that is all to common in our society i find it hard to be as open with other men as i can be with women
and Lastly what did a mean with the title? Because i feel that when it comes to getting to know a new person I can learn more about that person from seeing what question they ask me then hearing the answer to my questions. This is of course dependant on them asking questions that is actually meaningful and not just asked because they think its what polite or expected of them
If you read al of that I'm impressed and really hope to hear from you if you at all found any of it interesting all i ask is that you please at least tell me a little about yourself to or send me a question about me that you actually really want the answer to so that i have something to work with to get the conversation going (If you skipped to the bottom feel free to send me a message anyway)
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