YOU

Think of where you are, what you're doing, and how hard you've worked to get here. It wasn't easy was it? You want to continue to chase your dreams. However, you'd really like to do with someone, wouldn't you? Especially, an older, mature, man who can lead. To create a friendship with him filled with intelligent debates, sarcasm, laughter, learning, and banter.

You're a woman who understands that a genuine relationship is built on trust, honesty, and open communication. It's very important to you that you find a man who's able to understand that while incorporating it into his leadership style: words > discussion > action.

Yet, you also need this man to know you're not perfect! Yes, despite how you look, talk, or act it's not easy being you is it. No - you're a real person with real problems. You're not looking to be someone's mom or porn star or emotional dump. In the end, you're just a woman who tries her best and wants an older, experienced man who she trusts to cuddle and praise her and tell her what a Good Girl she truly is.

While you're wanting to be able to grow and explore intimately with him, you're really looking for a deep emotional connection - so chemistry is a must. You want to be enabled and set free to embrace your femininity and needs in a way that's empowering. You want someone who can create a secret, private bubble of time and space just for the two of you. You know you deserve to be a man's greatest treasure, his Mona Lisa!

ME

I know what I want in a good way, that will be attractive to you and yet a little scary. I'm an actual successfully functioning adult. I work in management, can work remotely, and have goals and dreams I'm achieving daily. I believe in integrity as it's a cornerstone of who I am. I'm stable mentally and emotionally, and not argumentative or prone to anger. Good words that people have used to describe me are: hilarious, humble, sarcastic, confident, charming, disciplined, nurturing, and outgoing. Other words you can judge yourself: driven, challenging, detail oriented, firm, and ambitious.

I want something long term that let's me take the time to invest in getting to know you. I'm talking the real you - not the one that's on social media, or the one you created when you give out your fake number. NO! I want the real you without filters.

I don't care about what type of work you do or your history, but I do care about you being productive and bringing something positive to the relationship. This is going to be a true partnership, the most intimate of them all where I WILL care about not only your happiness and contentment.

US

I'm the type of leader who values your input because you're important to me and you'll also have a beautiful mind that has information that's valuable for US :) I believe in giving clear and consistent goals, while providing support and encouragement on how to reach them. I'm also not looking for a perfect woman, but rather one who wants to grow with me. For I find the journey of creating that intimate connection to be incredibly meaningful.

A relationship is a healthy mixture of planning and reality that allows us to both understand clearly the roles we're meant to embrace. I'm a man and leader you will admire, whose guidance inspires your growth, and whose care will extend to every corner of our lives. Earning the right to be YOUR man is a huge responsibility that I've worked incredibly hard to be ready for. Most importantly, I will cherish and nurture every part of you :)

I truly enjoy this dynamic and molding, shaping, mentoring, teaching, is important to me and I know you can also teach me something as well. I will motivate you, hold you accountable, and keep you honest and in line. Praise and celebrations are very important to me, and I want to help you celebrate you being you!

I don't lead by bullying or being a dictator. I do so by earning your respect and trust over time. Then developing that into an intimate connection where you naturally begin to let go and allow me to lead because you value and respect my intelligence, confidence, and thoughtfulness. I want to be very clear: I will care about you mentally, emotionally and physically and learn what you need and want to be truly happy and then make that happen!

We are both: single, no kids, enjoys being with older/younger partner, brave enough to be vulnerable, ready for commitment, fiscally responsible, able to communicate regularly, willing to travel, growth mindset, willing to do hard work :)

So, if you seek a relationship with an older respectful leader who will create trust while developing the most intimate relationship you will ever have, I'd truly enjoy getting to know you. If you're not sure if this is for you, but intrigued please contact me anyway. I will help lead you to find out more about what I wrote and why it affected you in the way that it did.

Please send me a chat and let's see if we vibe, I can promise you'll feel comfortable and safe. Perhaps even move to a voice call so I can make you laugh a lot. Please tell me what you connected with in my post (detail appreciated), the type of relationship you're looking for, and what makes you happy.

Also looking in Portland, San Francisco Bay area, Los Angeles, San Diego, Austin, Dallas, Denver, Nashville, Miami, DMV, DC, New York NYC, Boston, Vancouver, Toronto, etc