Hey there.

I'm 38, single, from NYC. Got my shit together. Career, my own place, all that blah blah.

I work in the "glamorous" world of IT. Practice sarcasm and awesomeness (with varying degrees of success) and don't take myself too seriously.

Also I'm 5'6, just getting that out of the way for the ladies who prefer the taller gents.

Looking for someone close to my age that likes me and one that I'll like, to go on dates with. Hoping to find that proverbial chemistry.

Are you her? Like to read a lot. Huge movie geek. Can really get into discussions about favorite movie/book/show. You enjoy going out, and trying new things whether it be a cuisine you've never tried before, a new activity, a road trip, whatever. But you equally value your alone time and love to cozy up at home during them bad weather days. But also sometimes wish there was someone to cozy up and be alone with together?

Are you smart, funny, wear a killer smile and bring a razor sharp sense of humor? Do you consider yourself a sapiosexual but hate when people use or worse yet misuse that word?

If that's you I think you should definitely message me. The above pretty much describes me as well.

I don't have any serious preference looks wise, but we both agree the attraction and chemistry has to be there.

I'm not looking for: - a partner in crime (can someone explain what these crimes are people are continuously seeking partners for?) - My person (you're your own person, so am I) - Someone to "explore the city with" (yawn) - Someone who likes to "people watch" (creepy much?) - An online friend (yep, I'm gonna want to meet at some point) - someone far away from me (NYC area only, I'm not looking for LDR) - Someone selling pics, onlyfans or whatever ('nuff said)

If you made it this far, first of all THANK YOU. Hope I didn't waste too much of your time.

Looking forward to hearing from you so we can chat like there's no tomorrow and realize we absolutely have to meet soon.