We're just in a completely different realm financially...growth-wise.
I hardly play any video games as an adult, they don't work hard. I always think about playing video games and keep getting fired. Apart from feeling unfair, I don’t think about my own problems. In the past few years, I have been developing more and more smoothly, and their growth rate is 0. Sometimes they talk about moving to where I am, and I feel terrified that if I say yes, I won't just be taking care of a friend, but also her husband and several kids.
I have had so much success in my life and this success will only continue, I feel like I can't talk to them about any of my goals and dreams because their response is always indifference, I can't share photos from my travels with them, Even if I buy new jewelry, she will ask me to give expensive gifts as before.
My new circle of friends is different. I can trust them. He doesn't fit that mold. As my career progressed, I began to realize what kind of people I now wanted in my circle
I tried to help him many times, I tried to offer advice as a caring friend but he wouldn't and I really didn't want to give up on the friend I grew up with and I was anxious about that.
I feel like we are growing apart and the only thing we can talk about is food. no others. We have nothing else in common. Everyone says I should limit my interactions with him, but I feel terrible. Even if I go to other cities, I don't bother to meet them because if I do, I know I will end up paying for everything.
They always want to play video games, but I’m not that person anymore. They get angry when I don't want to participate.
I hope to be able to naturally exit each other's lives next year without any drama.
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