I have a bit of a conundrum. I have a very specific type. It’s really not that inflammatory but it feels that way in todays world. I like the superficial differences in men and women. I instantly resonate with men who enjoy those differences too. I enjoy reminders of how different I am. Not just the physical differences but the way we think.It's not so much the physical as it is everything that is born from the physical differences. The charged tension born out of how different we are is electric. The differences are magnified in other ways too. I like cultural and even racial differences. I do not shy away from it. That electric feeling leads to new understandings too. Love is not confined to state lines or countries so here's to tender wiles, transparent guiles and tears exhaling into smiles (Sydney Lanier)

About me: above average height 5'6, thin, natural hair that usually wear in protective styles but letting fluff monster breathe lately, living in knee high socks and oversized sweaters, have been described as hyperfeminine but prickly, clean girl aesthetic, softspoken but opinionated about ish.

You: The 3 Bs, burly, big and bearded. Preferably the opposite of me physically. Feed my competence itch. Have an accent. You are very good at something and love talking about that something all. the. time. Probably into outdoor manly shit that I do not get. Won't get. I will try to get it for you. Intentional.

I was going to write some fake platitudes about love languages but it's such BS. I am as flexible as my attraction goes, realllll talk.

Be between 35-45.

Here's the caveat though. Must be Muslim. See why this is a conundrum? Courtship works differently. DM me your age, what makes you different and something you’re competent at.

Yes, chat is disabled. I prefer PMs.