Being honest and transparent is the best way, especially when you want to find someone who connects with you on a deep level. Who I am is real, (no don’t shake your head at me), passionate, romantic, sensitive, caring and confident. Also I’ll say it, I’m good to the eyes. Apparently I give an essay below on ‘the kind of person I am’ so bear with me.

As an optimist, and stubborn I am on the search of a long distance relationship with a man that is emotionally available, ticks my attraction boxes - looks after himself, somewhere in your 30s, positive and healthy mental state, and knows a good thing when he finds it.

I said I’m transparent and I’m in no ways perfect. Some might think I’m needy, I don’t feel I am. Checking in and caring to know what the other person is doing through the day means you actually give a hoot. I do like to spend time with those I like, so if that happens you are in luck.

I want for someone that will think of me through the day and get excited to spend time with me; someone who will dedicate time and spend time together.

I can hold a conversation, and consider myself sweet. I like to care about the real you, and for you to do the same.

The sad news is that people online are likely to ditch or ignore you even after you form a connection or even be as audacious to ghost. Let me save us both time and effort: if you are like this, then you have no respect for people, I want someone who actually is a decent human being.

I do want something long term, and I would love you to take me on a date but the old kind of dates. Where you silence your phone so your attention is all on me, want to know everything about me but I notice how your eyes linger on my lips knowing you can’t wait for the opportunity to kiss me. (I told you I’m romantic). I’m from Europe though so you are warned to message me if you are okay to travel often if not.

So are you a person that actually wants to give a hoot for someone? Then tell me all the ways you will in my chat.