I feel like thus far, I thought I knew what I wanted in a partner - or, I had an idea of what “would be best for me.” Its like, if I have certain passions and interests - it would make sense for me to find someone who shared them, no?

I’ve realized that - some of the most beautiful and transformative relationships I’ve had were with people who were completely different from me - who shared nothing in common with me (outside of being a human being) and where we taught each other things. I’m open and receptive to meeting new people, and seeing how things develop and grow.

I love to learn. I’m in college (finishing my undergrad) and am really passionate about my field of study. I love reading / writing, and feel I’m a solid balance between esoteric/mystical and practical. I value the spiritual and also the material. I prefer solitude and silence, and more of one-on-one interactions rather than big group settings. I’m quite introverted, but am quite rowdy and outgoing when I’m comfortable. I’ve often felt like a “stranger in a strange land” - just like an outsider or like I don’t belong, and feel a kinship with others who feel similarly.

When I reflect on the dating scene, I feel its really easy to want to put our best foot forward and put on the appearance of perfection or “having ones shit together” - and I’m someone who values authenticity and “keeping it real” as they say. I don’t think I have my shit together, but I’m certainly someone who is on the track to getting there, and figuring out my own path, and doing so on my own timeline.
Some of my interests: reading, writing, music, exploring new places, nature, botanical gardens / beach, good food, exploring new coffee shops and libraries, art / museums, good food, cooking, taking myself on solo dates.

Happy to exchange pictures to see if theres a physical connection. I’m short (5’0) and on the curvy / heavier side, with brown eyes and hair. I have tattoos (but don’t generally show them off) and my style tends to be more “librarian punk nun / old man.” I think I’m more androgynous and like exploring / experimenting with fashion and style.

While I believe it is important to have a physical connection to someone - I tend to be more attracted to someone’s personality and intelligence off the bat, rather than physical appearance. I love getting deep into conversation, having my mind changed, or learning something new - and especially love listening to someone nerd out one something they’re passionate in.

Reach out if theres any resonance with what I’ve shared! Would love to learn a little more about you see where it goes. Happy to engage in conversation, and keep it friendly or let it progress into more. Would prefer to talk to people who are single / unattached, and have the bandwidth for a relationship. I value a good work ethic but find it hard to vibe with ultra workaholics, as I value quality time.
Full disclosure… I’m procrastinating on assignments that are due tonight and just really indulging in my search for love (and not doing schoolwork.) I think its time to sign off… post this bad boy… tackle some work and check back in with you later. Would love to read something more than “hey” “sup” and “my cock is hard.”