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30 [F4M] Europe to USA/online, possible LTR
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_MellonCollie_ is a female age 30 looking for a male
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Well, Tinder has blocked me for whatever reason, so giving this a chance.

I'm from Europe and, ideally, I'm looking for someone with serious intentions in the US. No, you guessed it wrong - I'm not trying to fool anyone into fake marriage for citizenship or riches (and even if we were to get married, I'm all for prenup). But I'm more than open to moving to the US as it makes sense in my circumstances. I have lived and studied in the US for quite some time. I also passed the California Bar Exam recently. I'll be a licensed CA attorney soon and I'd like to make the best of it wherever that takes me.

I'm a bit of an introvert and quite self-sufficient. I enjoy my space and company, as well as quality time together. Quality time to me means exploring something new, whether it's museums or restaurants or activities - anything to keep my ever-curious mind entertained.

My standards are somewhat high. But, all the humbleness aside, I think they are warranted. I have achieved quite a lot, I'm extremely disciplined and constantly work on improving myself physically, mentally, financially, and professionally.

Non-negotiables:

Successful career - doesn't necessarily mean top-earning. I'm definitely not a gold-digger and, again, I'm only getting married with a prenup. So put your worries away. I'm especially into guys with nerdy or conventionally masculine pursuits.

Well-travelled/open to international travel - I just cannot tolerate isolated mindsets very well. I'm quite well-travelled myself and I'd like to travel more. If you're an American guy that has never left the US for an extended period of time, we probably won't get along. If you're a European guy living in the US, we'll probably get along better.

Fit - not exactly looking for anyone with a 6-pack. But I'm fit myself and health is very important to me. I simply won't get along with someone with unhealthy lifestyle. Also, I'm guilty of admiring strong arms 🤗

Humor - I sound very serious in this post but I absolutely love good humor. In fact, I love being humorously challenged and scolded. If you can make fun of me with quality humor, I'd probably like you a lot more than I would have otherwise.

Emotional awareness - the bar is low and I'm not even asking for emotional intelligence - just awareness 🙄 If you're unable to have hard conversations, please do NOT reach out. I have had very unpleasant experiences with men who would rather sweep everything under a rug.

Just a little note: I'm open to single dads with daughters. I do have some motherly instincts and I don't want it to go to waste lol.

Please please do not send me your dckpics (or I'll have to send you someone's dckpick back) or sexually explicit messages. I understand the thirst (or do I 🙄) but there is a time and place for it.

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