I'm a 43 year old divorced dad of two kids under 10 with 50/50 custody. I've been divorced for just under 3 years and have healed and starting to put myself out there more. About a year ago I made a connection on reddit which I've been chasing, and have not found it on Hinge (online dating). The matches are there, but at this age, we all have our "stuff" that we've had to deal with, and you've either dealt with it and have healed and experienced "growth," or you're still dealing with the trauma or fallout of your relationship.Someone that’s committed to this growth is very attractive to me. I’m looking to do life with someone that will put actions behind their words. Someone that will grow with me. Someone that will learn with me. Someone that has healed.

As for me, I'm 6' feet tall (183 cm for anyone not in the United States), and have a dad bod that I'm working on (slowly, as I still like my dessert ;) Outside of working out, I'm into football (and a defending Fantasy Football Champion, was at an NBA game last night, and likes sports overall. I'm the head coach for one of my city's youth basketball teams, and our city's girl fastpitch softball team. I don't watch much TV outside of Survivor, but just about to start Invincible and GenV on Amazon Prime. I just finished a bathroom remodel, so I also have some DIY skills :)

Vegetarian, and an #ENFJ

I'm stable in that I have a great career in IT, my kids, a nice house, but what's missing is someone to share that with. Not that I need someone, but I'm at a point where I'm ready and actually excited about the future and the potential of meeting someone.I'm located in the Midwest (CST), but am open to anyone that's "done the work," or has healed from their past and excited about the potential to meet someone. What are you excited about? What's attractive to me is when someone is really passionate about something or looking to make the world a better place. I'm really open to location as a great connection is someone I would travel to see.

I'm a #girldad who's also a supporter (Ally) for those in the GLTBAQ community and progressive in my politics. If you're against those things, I'm not sure we'll click.I'm also a one woman man and not interested in anyone that is interested in having an affair or multiple partners.

If any of this was of interest, or you think, "maybe," don't hesitate to reach out. If you can include some info about you I'd appreciate it. If you send a selfie I'll send mine in response, but I know that some women aren't always comfortable sending one, and I don't want that to be a reason you don't respond.