Adorable 4'10" hippie chick seeking a lonely yet tender-hearted man whose life needs some serious lighting up. I'm cute, sweet, and cuddly. I'll make you laugh, and I might even write you something at least once in our time together that will make you cry (although if I do my job right they should be tears of joy? 😅)

So here a little bit about me. I'm a single white female who lives in New England (western MA, where the dragons live 🐉🐲). I don't have any kids, but I do have a fluffy cat who I'm happy to share pictures of if you ask. I'm an artsy, hippie chick type, and I love to draw and paint and do crafty types of things. I'm also a writer, in case you can't tell 😊

I own my own business, which keeps me very busy. And I'm also trying to break into writing and illustrating graphic novels, which keeps me even busier. And if that wasn't enough to keep me on the busy train, I'm also about to go back to school in the next couple of months.

My Christian faith is very important to me, although I'm definitely not what most people think of when they imagine a Christian. I will never vote for Donald Trump, one of my best friends is pansexual, and I definitely don't think that going to church every Sunday is what makes you righteous before God.

And I know it says I'm 44, and that's like, a death sentence when it comes to finding someone... but I'm really not 44. That's just my chronological age. In reality I'm still very young at heart. I love wearing bright colors and I decorate my home with happy things like toys and Disney art on my walls. People usually think I'm anywhere from 10 to 20 years younger than I actually am... I don't think I've ever had someone once come close to guessing my actual age.

And the fact that I have long dark curly hair I like to wear in pigtails, big brown eyes, and freckles scattered across my cheeks probably doesn't help matters 😇

There is one downside to me: I am not beautiful. I am mildly to moderately cute. Do not go into this thinking I'm some gorgeous Instagram model and building up an image in your mind that I can't possibly live up to, because I'm sick of guys backpedaling when they see my (perfectly fine, but not airbrushed and filtered up the wazoo) pictures. Yes, I have a fantastic personality. I am just as sweet and caring in person as I am online. However, I'm definitely not a model or anywhere even close, mmkay?

In spite that mini tirade up there, I'm still not all cynical and burnt out on life. I still believe in love, I still have that sense of childlike wonder about the world, and most of all I know that you're out there somewhere waiting for me. I just hope we find each other before we hit the retirement home?

I long for someone to take care of me. And I don't mean that I want to sit around on the couch all day and eat bon-bons while my man does everything. I can take care of myself just fine, and I pride myself in doing so. Because my whole life I've been treated like I'm very fragile. And maybe I might seem like I am, to someone who doesn't know me. But I'm not some little snack for a Big Bad Wolf, as they find out when they try to devour me. I'm strong in spite of how young I seem, and I'm a warrior and a fighter. It seems like I've been fighting one way or another my whole life just to survive.

But I'm tired of just surviving, and I'm definitely tired of fighting through everything alone. I want to settle down with someone who will love me and cherish me for who I am. Someone who enjoys taking care of his lady, and who enjoys having his lady take care of him right back.

So here's what I know about you: you have long blonde hair, a scruffy beard, and you're under 5'10". You might be a little chubby/have a dad bod. You love music. You care about the world around you, and you enjoy having long talks about all kinds of things. I'm pretty sure you're younger than me. You've had a string of bad luck when it comes to love that's probably just about as long as mine, even though everyone around you tells you what a catch you are. You're patient, you're kind, and most of all you believe in God and try your best to follow Him with a pure heart and an open mind.

So if you're out there, here I am. Please come find me and take me home with you?