Hello everyone!! While I’ve met many cool folks on reddit, I haven’t quite found that one person for me yet, but I still have hope she’s out there somewhere!

Physically:

I am 31, living on the east coast. I know physical attraction is important - I am 5'7", Southeast Asian, more muscular/dad bod type physique. I wear glasses, have short to medium black hair. Would not mind exchanging photos early on so we can get the physical attraction out of the way.

About me:

I work quite random hours in healthcare (ranging from 7am, 10am, 1pm, 7pm) but try to make it to the gym at least 2-3 times a week.

Despite being an introvert (ISFJ/INFJ) my work requires a lot of social interactions which leaves me quite drained. I tend to be more of a homebody but do enjoy time out with my partner, less inclined to go to big social gatherings/bars/clubs.

Some of my hobbies include, but are not limited to: Trying various restaurants, weight lifting, PC building, video games, and binging shows (anime/TV - currently watching Spy x Family and Shangri La Frontier). Also been playing a lot of Maplestory since I’ve been feeling nostalgic after listening to the MS soundtrack and being reminded of childhood!

Personality wise I am a good listener, considerate, patient, intelligent, open minded.

I enjoy various types of music such as Kpop, RnB, instrumental pieces, Rap/Hiphop, Jpop, etc.

I am open to children, although I think the decision is ultimately up to the woman to decide since she does 100% of the work in childbearing/takes all the risks.

Looking for:

I am looking for my future partner. Someone who's hand I can hold as we walk through the various food markets of the world. You eating two bites and me having to finish the rest of the street side skewer we bought after just downing a meal less than 2 hours ago. Trying snacks and drinks from around the world before falling asleep while cuddling. I'm looking forward to traveling to Japan, South Korea, Thailand, and Iceland to name a few.

Someone I can sit in a silent room with and just stare at and admire you without the silence being awkward. While I am not looking for someone with any particular interests or hobbies, sharing some common interests would be nice. Video games are a large part of my life since I was young so it would be nice to share that passion with someone else.

I am looking for someone who is emotionally mature and able to communicate what they feel. I am the type of person who wants to understand your joy, happiness, frustration, anger, disappointment in hopes that I can either recreate it or fix what might be causing it.

Open to a LDR with the right person, but there needs to be plans for relocating one way or the other.

Misc:

Thank you for taking the time to read through my rather long post! I hope to hear from you. Feel free to DM me or send a chat. If you also played MS as a child - let me know what your first character was and why? Or what you’ve been playing recently?