Hi.

I have ADHD and one of my favorite hobbies is getting to know a new person. I want to know everything about the people who pique my interest.

I am not looking for any kind of romantic connection. That is off the table completely. I just want to make new, cool friends. I want to know all about your love life but not be part of it.

I'm a very sincere person and open minded person. I like to treat others with kindness but can sometimes be overly curious. While I have plenty of my own interests (cosmology, science, games, hiking, animals, etc.), I love learning about other people's hobbies if their passion and enthusiasm is clear. I'm not really into fashion, make up, small children, arts and crafts, etc. I can be charming under the right circumstances but I'm actually riddled with anxiety.

I am a night owl living in the Pacific Time Zone so I'd like to find someone else who is too. It can get lonely when I stay up to 2 am or whatever. I'd like for you to be 33 and emotionally intelligent enough to carry and/or keep up a stimulating conversation. I don't really care about your kids. I care very deeply about your pets. If you like Jeopardy, we'll probably get along.

My preference is to message for a bit. If we vibe, then I'd like to voice chat. I will most likely want to message and/or voice chat all the time at first. I am very curious and I want to know everything but it's all without judgement. However, once I get to know you well, I will eventually lose interest as I will have exhausted all the dopamine available in my brain from getting to know you. It's not personal. I'll still like you as a person but we'll probably check in less often. You have to be okay with that because it is inevitable (sorry).

:)

For the record, it literally took me 2 hours to write this. And rewrite it. And freak out about posting. And make edits. And work up the courage to press the "Post" button. Get my post removed (?). Make more edits. Rethink this whole endeavor. Decide I've sunk too much time at this point to quit. So here we go. Again. Wish me luck. And....go!