Moi: https://imgur.com/a/ctl8Pf7

Some things I've noticed or realized lately:

"I get really lonely in the grocery store, which seems like such an odd place to feel that way; but I realized that I really miss perusing the shelves with someone. I miss the conversation that happens and the plans that get made in each of those aisles. I miss stealing a kiss as we push the cart along, bumping our hips together because we just want to be close."

"My mirror work game (context: therapy) has been tight lately and I have to admit that I don't think I've had a therapeutic tool this effective at my disposal...ever. I can see the compassion on my face as I talk myself up and dole out the self-love and it just fills my cup up in a way I've never really known before. I'm slowly becoming my own best friend, and it's the most important relationship to me right now."

"I need to find a technique or product to encourage the curls in my hair. I woke up at like 4 am to use the bathroom and I'd been sweating a bit in my sleep (VA heat is brutal), so as I walked by the mirror, I noticed my hair: it was so fucking cute and curly! I was so sleepy but I still checked myself out for a moment and played with it a bit before going back to bed. And yes, I'm a Leo rising 😂."

"Since I finished my last book (Hench), I've had a difficult time settling on my next read. To encourage myself, I selected 1 to re-read (Jane Eyre) and 2 new books to read (Pale Fire and The Left Hand of Darkness). I keep them on the top of my headboard so that their presence annoys me enough to read them and then put them away. I've been trying this method for awhile now with mixed results. I've noticed I have trouble motivating myself to open a book lately and I'm not sure how to fix that."

What I'm looking for: chemistry, mutual attraction, and a deep, meaningful connection that lasts (LTR).

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