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I posted before but haven't found right person yet though talked with some good people. Text is same because I have nothing to add.
This text is only for single M without kids and dogs, without dream to have them, strictly monogamious, who searchs for wife. You can be Christian (practicing or not) or atheist. Some explanations about this are above for that one, who will take a risk to read this absurd notes till end.
Important, CHAT DOESN'T WORK CORRECTLY. I can't see and reply to chat requests, can't fix it. Text to letter section. How to do that? Open my profile > More options > Send message. Not chat but message.
I'm a single F from Ukraine (can meet with you in another country, more safe for you). I search for a single childless M > 35 (older- better) for a serious relationship, first without physical aspects. Your age & appearance are not important. I wish you are self-employed, your own master & boss or digital nomad who is not bended strongly with certain place of living or office shedual but that is not a strict demand. You can be employee bended to certain place & shedual. I have always been only in that cathegory.
Sometimes men expect physical aspects very fast & leave fast if not get it soon. In my opinion, this means the first interest was not in the relationship itself but in these aspects. That's why I want to find a relationship first without it.
Right person for me is someone who will be happy staying with me & will do everything for me by his own wish. Sounds too vanilla? Yes, I am a dreamer.
If things work, I can relocate to you or to invite you to live in Ukraine after the war ends. If you are able to set up app called telegram for chat & meet in real life before end of winter, then please text me. I prefer well written letter that was sent in inbox letters, not in chat requests.
Now more detaily about me. Never been married, no kids (will not have in the nearest time and probably will never have), no pets . Was raised in small village at farmer's house (the nature was great but didn't like the hard working lifestyle) & prefer city life. I don't smoke, don't drink alcohol . You will not have to suffer dealing with numerous people around me because I don't have friends (connections disappear when interests and lifestyles become different) & my family is very small. I don't visit bars, clubs or parties & not addicted to social networks. As an introvert, I can't open to someone fast because have been cheated by those whom trusted. Life teaches, only real actions show the true person's intentions, not just his words.
About 4 negative moments. The first is my passivity. I was raised in a culture where it was considered vulgar if a woman is too active in the path of creating a relationship. Yes, it is obvious that active women will get success sooner than passive one but I can't change myself & prefer the one who will take initiative & will be just classic old-fashioned gentleman.
The second negative moment is that being introverted, I totally dislike situation when I have to contact with unknown people, especially with men, especially in field of relationship. That sounds not logical because how can someone know anyone if he/she doesn't like starting this contact? There is only one solution for me. I can start contact only if I have already got very detailed information about person so this makes illusion that he is already not a stranger. Most of men send short message, expecting that I will ask many questions trying to find out his personality. The truth is that I will not do it. Yes, you can call me bad for that, but I will reply only to well written detailed letter from someone who will not make me to ask many questions but will write proper letter with basic information by himself. Man's appearance means nothing for me, but what he says and what is more important, what he does - that's important.
Number three is about unfidelity. Who's fault is it when people have relationship with wrong partners? No one's. I need someone who can be happy with only one woman in his life. Lifelong relationship.
Fourth is about animals. I like animals in general, both pets & wild. Till certain moment I thought that prefer dogs. I stayed in area where people are not used to put a mask or walking rope on a dog. Some people even just let them go for a walk without masters. Sometimes that lead to unpleasant situations, got such experience. With all respect to dog lovers, I would prefer not to stay with dog owner. Totally understand those who will prefer his dog better then relationship with neurotic person who is afraid of dogs.
That were negative moments. Obviously, there are much more of them but I'll let you discover size of all iceberg by yourself. Thanks for reading.
P.S. Please, be patient & don't expect fast replies, sometimes it is not easy to do due to many reasons. That one who puts efforts in his first letter will get reply faster.
P.S.S. Chat doesn't work correctly and doesn't show messages and requests there. Text only in letters section.
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