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Well as seen above. I’m 34 now and suffer from a crippling inferiority complex caused by health problems. I’ve at least identified a part of the problem.
Some of it is due to the meds im on making me underweight. By a noticeable amount.
I’m going to stop being a sad sack now. What I need advice on is my long distance relationship. Every time I bring up meeting up and hanging out IRL she gets cagey. It usually comes across as anxiety or poor timing for it.
“I want to do things right.” Is what I heard the last two times. I don’t want to issue an ultimatum. How do I tell her I feel this problem is seriously damaging the relationship for me? She’s going to draw back more.
In her shoes how would you want this said? It’s been two and a half years. I’m already feeling pressure by not having at my age and looking like I do.
Any thoughts and opinions would be appreciated.
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