Hi there! I'm Vito, a 39 year-old trans man currently living in MD, right outside of DC. My lease is up at the end of October and, after a lot of thought, I’ve decided to leave the area and move closer to family.

I’m looking for friends, an arch-nemesis, dates, or, ideally, a friends to lovers romance arc.

A bit about me:

• Single and have been since my divorce a few years ago. I've dated, but nothing serious. Therapy has helped me figure out what I want in a relationship and I’m ready for a more committed relationship with the right person. I’m in no rush to find that person, trying to be more intentional.
• dog and cat dad
• Recently acquired 7 house plants and I've managed to keep them alive!
• I'm usually reading (mostly lit fic, sci fi, horror, romance, mystery, nonfiction, poetry). I am particularly fond of books that leave me sobbing.
• I collect vinyl and I can spend hours looking through bins at record shops
• I loooove to cook and bake. I will happily bring you lunch/dinner/baked goods.
• I play ttrpg's with friends regularly, mostly dungeons and dragons
• I play video games, but I am not very good at them 🤷🏻‍♂️
• Huge fan of dad jokes and puns
• I love watching movies, particularly "bad" movies (Velocipastor, anyone?), as well as bad rom-coms and horror
• I workout at the gym (half-heartedly). I love leg day though. I would love to find a gym partner! Let me hype you up and spot you!
• I am a fat nerd. Basically, I'm built for cuddling. Importantly, I don't think body size is an indication of health
• I do a lot of organizing and advocacy work in the local community, particularly in queer spaces and around issues that affect the queer community. I would love to find folks that are involved locally in Buffalo/WNY
• I'm a leftist
• I value communication and honesty. I'm neurodivergent so direct communication is preferred.

I'm more than happy to share SFW pictures privately, exchange socials, and verify who I am through whatever means you are comfortable with.

Send a chat or a message if you're interested!