Hello everyone,

This is my first time posting here but my sister had some success with R4R so I figured I might as well give it a try. I’ve been single for the last couple of years and haven’t really had a strong urge to date but I feel it sneaking up on me. The most important thing for me would be finding a right partner; someone it feels fun to date and where we are compatible enough to want to put in the effort to make it last. To make it easier and really narrow it down to what I’m looking for I have prepared a list. If you see yourself in this list please do contact me.

1. Location. I live in Stockholm and even though I can consider a long distance relationship pure logic just states that it’s easier the closer together you live.
2. Age. I’m 30 and I prefer for you to be around this age as well since I believe that similar age tends to lead to more equal relationships.
3. Job. I’m no super successful but I do make enough money to get by (and save quite a bit). I’m into smart guys so it would be cool if you also had an intellectually demanding job, but it is by no means a requirement. I’m not super ambitious and I mainly see my job as a source of income. I would hope for the same in a partner. If you’re a cheapskate that is a definite plus BUT you should also be willing to contribute to the relationship in equal measure. I would much rather be partnered with someone who can hold money than someone who makes a lot but spends it as soon as it comes in.
4. Looks. Since I’m about average looks wise I’d hope the same from a partner. I am slightly (and I do mean slightly) overweight but it’s mostly “in the right places” (as in huge boobs :P). I’m fine with a bigger guy as long as it’s not extreme (BMI 30 ). Also, I much prefer taller men, so if you’re at least 175 cm (but preferably taller) that would be great since I am 172 cm.
5. Personality. Personality wise I’m looking for someone agreeable and preferably not too extroverted since I am quite introverted and I see it as less likely that our interests will be similar if we differ too much in this dimension. However I am super talkative so someone chatty would be great! An ambivert should be fine too!
6. Interests. I’m into games (Age of Empires 2; Darkest Dungeon and Sims 4 mostly, but open to other games as well) and I looove murder documentaries. I am also quite musical and I listen to all sorts of music. Also I love cats. If you share these interests it’s a big plus!
7. Politics. I much prefer someone who is left leaning such as myself, but nothing extreme. For instance, I do not want someone who is politically correct since my sense of humor can be quite offensive.
8. Childfree. Now and most likely (but not 100% decided!) forever…
9. Sex drive. I’d really prefer someone with a lower sex drive since mine is quite low. Also, if you don’t have any extreme or strange fetishes that is to be preferred since I don’t. I cannot really picture myself having sex more than like max once per week or preferably much less in the long term. While we’re crushing I’m fine with it WAY more but I’m thinking long term…
10. Stuff that annoys me and I would prefer for you not to be: (Extreme) time optimists. Hoarders. Nail biters.

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If you feel like most of these apply to you please do contact me!