Hey! I’m Becca. 👋🏾 I’m a 31-year-old black woman from Minnesota who values family, honesty, consistency, loyalty, and humor in relationships. I enjoy extreme sports, martial arts, Marvel, anime, cooking/baking, and watching rugby, football, basketball, and baseball, especially the New Zealand All Blacks. I am passionate about advocating for equality, social justice, and disability rights, and I'm an ally of the LGBTQIA2S community.

I've been through a lot of toxic relationships, so I now know what I want in a partner: someone who focuses on me, enjoys intimacy and is attentive. I have confidence in myself and am committed to creating loving relationships free from toxicity. I am looking for someone between 30 to 42 years old who prioritizes consistency, has a hunger for knowledge, and enjoys friendly verbal sparring over debates about pop culture, books, music, and TV shows. I seek someone who wants to settle down someday, embraces individuality, values intimacy, prioritizes independence, and shares my love for food, family, and animals.

I seek a partner who understands and respects my journey, supports me through my emotions and past experiences, and appreciates my strengths while understanding my struggles and quirks. Setting boundaries and allowing space for personal growth and understanding are crucial for me. Ultimately, I’m looking for a man who's ready to embrace all of me with love and understanding.

I will block any messages starting with "Hey", "Hi", or “Hi. How are you?”, or if you act sexually or immaturely.

Lastly, I want to be open and honest with you about myself, as I believe any relationship should be built on mutual trust and understanding. I have Fetal Alcohol Syndrome (FAS) due to my birth mom drinking while she was pregnant with me. As a result, I have mild ADHD/ADD and a lack of executive functioning (organizing, planning, and prioritizing, starting tasks, and staying focused on them until they’re done, etc.). However, I want you to know that my disability doesn’t define who I am as a person. If you are willing to look beyond my disability, I would love to get to know you better. If you can’t, we wouldn’t have worked out, anyway.

I look forward to hearing from you! ❤️‍🩹😁