So here I am, an ex-pat living in Korea, learning the language and working in a different field after burnout from my previous engineering job. I am still looking for a partner, ideally for the long term. About me, some call me to type. I am a Teddy bear kind of person, big soft-hearted, Loving, Caring, and Nurturing. I do not limit aspects of my partner's life, especially if it makes them comfortable. My partner's happiness is essential to me.
So, what am I looking for? Well, a partner, of course, but in primary, it breaks down to:
· Someone who likes constant communication (communication is essential to me)
· One looking for long term (really tired of here for a bit, then gone tomorrow)
· Someone not overly sexual at the start (I am a Demi-sexual, so it takes a bit to build that connection. See below)
· For Someone looking to make this IRL, LDR is okay at the start as long as IRL is the goal (I am willing to relocate or help relocate)
· Ready to be supported and seen as the center of their partner's lives.
· Wants Someone to grow a deep bond of trust
So, what about me IRL, Well, I am 37, very open-minded, and adapt to my partner's wants and needs. I am a nerd. With my degree in Robotics, I have lived with tech all my life; I am a retro game enthusiast and mod consoles and design electronics, hiking the local areas like the mountain I live near and the new culture I am now experiencing.
I have a competitive side and love to skate. I was a speed skater for a while, made it to nationals my first year, and fenced in college. I love all kinds of music and was even a DJ in college, so I listen to many remixes and EDM.
But as I said earlier, I am demisexual, which means my sexual side will not be very active toward new people until I get to know them and feel a deep bond. This can take a few weeks to a month to get there, so please understand. I have had issues with this in the past, so due to this, I will be blunt with it now. That doesn't mean I won't open up to you; it could be sooner. It depends on how fast I grow comfortable with you. Also, I am willing to help relocate the right person to be with me if wanted, or even relocate to them (been in every US state and 14 countries to date); I am okay with LDR at the start but would prefer it to become IRL.
So, if you have read this far, thanks, I hope you've been interested and hope to hear from you.