Hello,

Looking for thirty to forty-something to share a long-term monogamous, childfree partnership with me. I'm really hopeful to meeting someone who enjoys horror movies like I do, has a caffeine addiction that transcends the line between morning routine and insanity.

I enjoy pizza enough to consider it a weekly staple, sometimes biweekly (twice a week not once every other week). I'm a huge homebody and don't go out much. I'm not looking for grand adventure, nor am I looking for someone to hide inside with indefinitely. I wasn't the most popular person growing up. I was the shy and awkward kid that just managed to find a part of a small group of people. As years went by, things began to wind down, and now, post-pandemic and being over 41.65 years old, I have drifted apart. No sugar coating, I do not have much of a social life these days.

Call me boring or lame, but I want to find my "boring and lame" counterpart. My equal. I'm not perfect and have flaws of my own which are enough to make me feel self conscious about trying to date, let alone share a relationship. It is expected that there will be good blanket cuddling while watching our spooky stories, but I would like to enjoy low key fun outings with you. Sitting and drinking coffees and chatting, grabbing some pizza or a sweet dessert, walking and window gawking, people observing and letting our time together just be ours. I prefer morning / afternoons out, and evenings in, but a night out at the cinema or dinner at a cool yet not fancy spot is also desirable. I want mental and physical affection, quiet conversation into the night and to feel the comfort that we have each others backs.

5'10, very short brown hair, glasses, white, no facial hair, no tattoos, and approx. 169 lbs. My attire is pretty much jeans and a t-shirt for the most part. My job doesn't require me to wear formal clothes which works really well for me. Not superficial, I don't have a lot, but I am very grateful for everything I do have. I don't live alone, but with a roommate. I used to smoke cigarettes, but quit. Non-drinker and no other drugs except for a small amount of cannabis. It varies week to week, however it never exceeds a very minimal amount.

My time is mostly spent reading anything, watching horror stuff, going for walks around my neighborhood, and anything else that comes up. I find I'm more just going through the motions these days. Running on autopilot and wanting to make necessary changes in my life, and keeping the things that bring me joy. Hopefully find someone who adds a whole lot more. Of course this is to be shared both ways equally since I am staunchly supportive of equality in relationships. Finding someone similar might be a very tall order, but I'm patience enough to take my time. I want to find someone who is good for me, and not rush into it. I want a long term connection, but compatibility isn't guaranteed, so if it's not going to work, no pressure. 

Even though I am not looking for someone to have kids with, pets are awesome. I do expect you to share in my joy of watching horror but it won't be all horror all the time. I enjoy humour and the small things two people can do together. Simple life and all that.

Thanks for reading this post!