To be up front, my life is a mess in advanced, never-before-seen ways. This is a mess4mess ad, if you're interested in talking to someone that understands a winding road and has survived personal apocalypses. Like a sort of "friendship at the end of the world" deal, you know? That's the vibe here.

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I was a wife for nearly 10 years, worked for a college for half of those years, quit due to chronic disability and other personal circumstances, took time off, made some interesting choices, and now I'm looking to travel far away.

I will be living in the PNW soon (likely moving within a week depending on how long my parent needs help after a surgery).

Pretty leftist. I'm verbally compulsive and it's mostly okay but sometimes mortifying.

I grew up in rough neighborhoods, but still have the emotional softness of a warm marshmallow w the attitude of a New Yorker trying to get somewhere on time.

I'm a voracious learner, a little manic about connecting patterns.

Weary sex addict (I like fucking too much but have a distrust of most people's advances so it's not gonna work unless you have your charisma at level 10).

I make bright, very pink art, listen to music pretty nonstop, write often.

I'm hard to read emotionally (it's the autism but also the PTSD of it all) but I do feel deeply. You have to have a preference for strange women to enjoy this ride, and that's the gist of it all.

Want to have a one-time conversation, no strings attached?

Have trouble maintaining conversations but enjoy a sporadic flurry of thoughts sent back and forth every now and then?

Do you have a fundamental disrespect for social hierarchies and it's made you a little insufferable but mostly fun?

Do you deal with the horrors of existence with your sense of humor and it's a little concerning to others but you actually think it's a healthy way of coping with living in the worst timeline?

Are you really into talking about aliens?

Let's chat and distract ourselves from the mortal coil!

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