I know this is a lot, but I'm just putting this out into the universe to see what manifests. Please read to the end, and also feel free to between the lines!
I have recently connected with a few "perfect matches" as far as values, humour, bedroom interests, hobbies etc goes. But it has always been too good to be true, and it's ended before things got serious for one reason or another.
So I'm gathering all the emotional energy I have left to put myself out there one last time, hoping to find the person who is actually ready to receive everything I have to offer.
About me: I'm a tall (6'3), very experienced, relatively fit guy looking for a partner who is primarily on the same wavelength as me when it comes bedroom interests. This isn't an ad for a hook-up though. I don't even want to have sex until both parties are agreed that there is long term potential outside the bedroom as well.
Outside the bedroom I'm a bit of an introverted extrovert. I really enjoy my own company, although I'm a bit over it since spending the last two years isolating. When I do have time to myself, I enjoy reading, playing the occasional game, or doing my very nerdy hobby that is too hard to explain here. I also absolutely love going out on road trips, seeing movies, checking out exhibitions, surfing (happy to teach you if you're interested!), and I do enjoy clubbing/dancing now and then.

I am extremely fun, easy-going and low maintenance. I am also extremely perceptive and intuitive so I'll usually know if you're feeling off before you do, and I'm an excellent listener. I am also extremely honest. I have been through a lot, so I am very understanding and considerate when it comes to others.
In the bedroom, I don't even know where to begin. I have no limits when it comes to fantasy/role play, and only a few limits when it comes to real-life play. It's hard to go into detail on what I'm looking for here, but I'm happy to go into more details about these interests in private. One thing I can promise is that if you're looking for someone extremely experienced to explore your wildest desires with, you have come to the right place. Having said that, I am super into passionate vanilla to. I should also mention that if you're a size queen, you're in luck.
Age, Race and body-type are not big factors for me. I am more interested in the connection and enthusiasm over mutual interests. If you have a pretty face I'm probably going to be into you regardless of your body type. Having said that, it would be great if you did have an ongoing minimal commitment to your physical health, as I would enjoy having a partner I can go on hikes or do other physical activities with. Ideally you'd be intelligent, passionate, open minded and extremely non-judgmental, and a good sense of fun and can laugh at yourself. Ideally you have some passing interest in nerdy stuff, but have interests outside those and haven't made it your identity.
Once we have agreed there is long term potential, I'd want to transition into something monogamous while we get to know each other, but I'm open to having others join us in the bedroom in time if that's your thing.
My non-negotiables are: You have good emotional maturity, you communicate well, you're honest, you're respectful. Especially the communication and honesty. Without honesty we're wasting each others' time, so please just be who you are and say what you feel.
Oh, and kids aren't on my agenda, so ideally you don't have any or don't want any of your own. (I love kids, I just don't want any of my own. No child haters please).
There is so much more to say, but I'll leave some things to discover in person.
I'm located in Geelong, but I travel to Melbourne regularly, and would probably eventually relocate to Melbourne if I had a partner there.
Thanks for taking the time read all of this, and please feel free to shoot me a message if any of it appeals to you. I'm happy to share photos in private. Look forward to talking to you!