Hi reddit! Here goes nuthin’! I am 31, AFAB NB person living in Maine. I’m looking for a real connection and friendship that has the potential to become more. I feel like I’m in a good place in my life and am ready to find a partner to enjoy life with. More about me: •Genuine •Owns a little cafe •Monogamous •Loves trying new things (especially food) •Romantic and seeking real intimacy •Leftist/ ACAB/ anti capitalist •Probably wants kids •Not religious but I believe in a higher power •Basically sober- I’m a super light weight and just not interested in partaking 99% of the time •Silly goose •5’2 and semi athletic but I like people of all sizes •Dancer- Not professional by any means but I took classes for years and make time for it everyday because it makes me so happy •Is cute

Let’s start as friends and see if there is chemistry :) Eventually I would like something serious with the right person. I’m not into anything casual and I don’t want anything explicitly sexual until there is an emotional connection.

I’m more of an introvert but I love going out with friends to trivia nights or dancing. I’m also always down to stay in and watch movies or play board games. I’m a little in love with wingspan atm. I will always try things at least once. This last year I tried rock climbing for the first time and really liked it!

I like to think of myself as a silly lighthearted person and I am looking for someone similar. Someone who tries not to let the little things get them down and can put things in perspective. That being said I love to vent and I like to hear people vent as well. And if it’s appropriate, to find what’s funny about the situation.

The key to my heart is a good sense of humor. It is beyond cliche but 🤷‍♀️. I want belly-laughing-until-it-hurts kind of thang. Someone who can “yes and” with me and just be a goof.

I am a passionate romantic. I tend to be more attracted to more butch/masc people. I love being cared for and feeing protected and safe. I enjoy thoughtful gestures, physical touch and praise. However relationships are all about reciprocity to me. I love caring and doting on my partner as well. I give meaningful gifts and am a great listener☺️ I also love to cook and feed my partner and love quality time. Finding a partner who would want to do yoga, dance or work out together would be darling. I value my health and quality of life and looking for someone with similar goals. That being said, ice cream and my homemade sourdough donuts are also necessary for a happy life.

I am open to long distance. I am ready to prioritize and put the effort into a promising relationship. Communication is key. I like to think I am an open and honest communicator and I expect the same. I enjoy pictures so I can see what my partners life looks like. I love pictures of pets and even meal pics. A sexy voice is a huge turn on for me and regular phone calls keep me feeling close and connected.

Physically I am 5’2, 135 lbs and in pretty good shape. I am AFAB but I was on testosterone for a while so I look and sound somewhat androgynous. This past year I’ve really come into my femme side and have been presenting more feminine and using she/they pronouns. I’m not going to be a cis girl but hopefully I can be your girl :)

Dealbreakers: -Conservatives : because duh -Smokers/ Heavy drinkers/ Drug users and anyone who makes weed their personality -Bad listeners and people who steamroll conversations (Active listening is hot) -You must like cats (I have a little trash rat baby who I love) -Must have tried therapy

Potential dealbreakers for you: - Since I own a restaurant there is no possibility of me relocating somewhere full time - In that same vein I work a lot and my off days are Mondays and Tuesdays

I think that’s about it! I look forward to hearing from you :)