Good morning from Cape Town, South Africa

I feel like I have become one of those calm, introverted individuals that has wormed himself into a nice little comfortable spot that I'm okay with. The problem with this spot is that it tends to get lonely more often than not. You know that loneliness where there are people around you but they are people that don't REALLY see you.

I would love to find a friend that can see me, and maybe that special someone is you.

I enjoy music and reading. From the mixes that YT Music generates for me I think we agree that contemporary country and 90s pop is my flavour. I just finished reading The Whisper Man and will be getting back into Gone Girl after I hit post. If you looking for a creepy book recommendation I suggest The Whisper Man by Alex North. The narration of the audio book is great too.

I love spending time in the kitchen. For me this is always the heart of the home. I would enjoy finding someone to share recipes with and to share pics of failed and successful experiments.

I enjoy English Football and I have been devastated this past season by the form of my beloved Chelsea FC. I however live in hope that next season will be better. Honestly there is little room for it to be worse.

I enjoy board games and the online variants are often great too. Chess, parchisi, Rummikub, Checkers ..... I am down for any of them if you are.

I think my inner mind is secretly trying to turn my house into a zoo. I built an outdoor aviary this year and I keep finches, I also keep fish, albino crayfish, dogs and I'm dying to get a little piggie. Bad idea I know!

I have a 4 year old and he is incredible. He has shaped so much about me and I can not sing how proud I am of him loud enough.

I have been at this Reddit thing before and found that I get on best with ladies that are nurturing in nature and maybe a little clingy too. I’m hoping for a genuine long term friendship with someone who is smart, nice, caring, and able to hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh, challenge me, and motivate me. Someone who can be my co-pilot and let me be theirs.

Drop me a DM if you think we may have chemistry.