I’ve posted a couple of times, but maybe I’m not super clear on what I want, so I will do my best to be transparent this time around. Sorry in advance for the rambling feel of this post. I keep coming back and adding or modifying it.

I am a 37 year old, heavy set mom of 3 kids. Looking for a man, 30-45ish who is marriage minded, and is willing and able to relocate if we get to the point we want to take things to the next step. I could honestly see that happening pretty quickly for the right person. I would not be opposed to being married and pregnant by early next year.

I am NOT looking for an online only situation, a FWB situation, or a situation where you are not willing to have phone calls/voice chats fairly regularly. Not looking to be anyone’s affair partner.

I’m at the tail end of a divorce (final hearing at the end of June) but the marriage has been over for years. We’ve been nothing more than roommates for about 7 years, and truthfully it only began because I was pregnant with my oldest, and we both felt some pressure to “do the right thing.”

Because of my kids and my ex, I am unable to move far from the town I live in - in rural Nebraska, so any potential match would need to be able and willing to relocate to my area if we hit it off. I CANNOT AND WILL NOT LEAVE. It’s too important for my kids that I stay. They are my number one priority.

I’m definitely liberal in my political viewpoints. I am a friend and supporter of the alphabet community.

I was raised by a Catholic and a Jew, so some could call me a cashew ;) I only claim my Jewish heritage, but practicing wise, I’m heavy on the “ish” part of Jewish.

I’m definitely open to the idea of having more kids, in fact, I would love to have at least one more, but open to more than one, depending on my partner and our future.

Which brings me to kinks. I have a breeding and lactation kink. I am a bit of a switch, but predominantly submissive and I love the idea of calling a man “Daddy” in bed.

I’m very needy and clingy and I really would love to get married and have the whole family experience. I don’t really have much family, so family is something I really value. I will probably fall hard and fast, because when I love, I love with my whole heart. I’m looking for someone who is really looking for the whole family - the wife, kids, dog and the white picket fence (except maybe a privacy fence?)

If you have kids, I’m totally okay with accepting them as my own, as I expect you to accept my kids as yours too, but if you message me, I will assume that you have full custody and will be bringing your kids with you, or that your kids are adults. I don’t think I could ever feel okay about having a partner who isn’t an active part of their children’s lives.

I want the random texts letting me know you are thinking of me. I want the hour long phone conversations where we forget to look at the clock. I want the random snapchats and videos and snippets of each-others lives. I want to fall in love.

To sum it up: Me: 37yo heavy set, single mom of 3, looking for love marriage and another child. You: 30-45yo Male, marriage minded, willing and able to move to Nebraska if we hit it off, willing to take on 3 kids, plus have at least one more.