Back when I was first starting out, I used to see what everyone else was posting, and tried to follow suit. But it's SO weird to hafta essentially write an advertisement for "why you too should talk and/or fuck me!" I ended up tryin' WAY too hard, and got 0 responses.
Fast forward to now, and my posts actually lead to fun convos! I'm just talkin' the way I'd normally talk, sharin' things I'd normally share with whoever I was talkin' to at the moment. No "this is what you need to know about me, this is my list of requirements to even CONSIDER talking to you", none of that. We already put enough pressure on ourselves! I think it's best to just let things be, and enjoy the moments you get with the people you meet around here.
Maybe 5 mins into the convo we end up sexting and never speak again. Maybe we talk about what possible reason there could be that people haven't seen Demolition Man. Maybe we discuss the differences between an open relationship vs a poly relationship. All of those experiences can be learned from, and enjoyed.
ALSO! Dudes! Schmeat slingers! The R is there for you guys too! Let's kill some time! I may not be the F(lady) you need, but for today, I could be the F(riend) you deserve :D
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