I’m looking for a long term relationship, someone to be a partner, best friend, and co-conspirator. I’m based in the UK.

Couple bits of admin first: I’m looking for someone also in the UK generally. Please only message if you’re single and available, no recent divorce/breakup, no rebounds, and no one already in a relationship. Thanks!

I have quite a lot of niche interests, kinda geeky but enjoy all kinds of this. I’ve got a good sense of humour and wit. Politically I’m on the left. My values come from my amazing mum and sister. I was a busy activist back in my uni days but not so much anymore. Feminism is a big deal to me, as is mental health awareness. I’m a responsible partner who does their equal share of domestic duties and understand relationships take equal input.

I was raised veggie and I’m now vegan, I’m not preachy in any sense, if you’re not vegan that’s not an issue and never will be. It’s your choice entirely.

I’m relatively attractive (apparently) but aesthetics isn’t something I spend too much time thinking about. I’m open minded, non judgemental, and compassionate. I don’t like excessive consumerism and materialism. I’m not classically masculine (liking sports and cars and all that boring stuff). To relax I like either cerebral or meditative stuff, so relaxing with plant care, or watching a documentary for example. I rarely drink alcohol, if at all.

I don’t own any property or have much savings, I understand that’s regretfully a deal-breaker for some people so here’s me being upfront. Marriage and/or kids isn’t a firm decision for me, I really don’t mind, if something is right then it’s right.

Hobbies

Houseplants, gardening, reading, TV & movies, video games occasionally, my cat lol (she’s a former stray now with a forever home). I like to write a lot, it’s nothing special but I just like to be in touch with my creativity, passion and emotions.

A few examples of my tastes:

Musically my two favourite bands are Radiohead and Brand New, generally I like alt rock and electronica but have very broad tastes. Happy to make playlists for you. I like cerebral tv and movies, as well as being a big comedy fan. Outside of that I enjoy documentaries such as nature, space/science, and true crime. I like to read philosophy and similar genres for non-fiction. For fiction I like sci-fi, dystopian and realism. My favourite author is Margaret Atwood.

Ask me anything, we can chat about whatever or our favourite things. I’m very open and non-judgemental so tell me anything you like. No topic is off limits or taboo in my opinion.

Here’s me with my cat https://imgur.com/a/K9hM2S2 and just me https://imgur.com/a/cGEWa07 If you can send a picture too then please do if you’re comfortable with that.