Hi there, I live near Atlantic City and I’m looking for someone nearby to cuddle and spend time with. Let’s be each others shoulder to cry on. It would be great if you have kids, but that isn’t a requirement as long as you enjoy being around kids. I like to see my partner often and send each other dumb memes all day when we are apart.

My pronouns are she/her. I am pansexual but mostly attracted to sapphic types. I don’t care what society assigned you as at birth as long as you can relate to me as a woman and I will appreciate, love, and adore your body however it is. Physical attraction for me is very interconnected with emotional attraction.

I have been polyamorous and monogamous throughout the years. I tend to lean more towards polyamory but I am open to monogamy with the right person who is able to offer everything I’m looking for.

I’m looking for that person who wants to plan a life together. That person who exists in your mind when you think about 5, 10, 40 years from now. Someone who wants to be together often and battle the things life throws at us as a team. Someone who values communication, honesty, and healthy compromise.

I am a bit socially awkward. I’m a weirdo, in a good way I think. I miss social cues and have to be told when it is time to leave. I make a lot of silly jokes and try to see the positive side of things. I often catch myself over-sharing.

Life has thrown a lot at me- abuse, homelessness, loss, chronic health conditions, lots of heartbreak, etc. As a result I have been in therapy for over 15 years and have learned a lot about effective communication and how to cope. I have a huge appreciation for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and a very open, non-judgmental view of mental health issues, trauma, sexuality, etc.

I’ve lost a lot of who I was before I had my son and I’m interested in finding her again. I have an artistic mind, a love for being in nature, and I love talking about deep philosophical ideas. I’d like to rediscover my passions with a supportive partner.

Myers-Briggs INFJ. All of my careers have revolved around taking care of people. I’ve mostly worked in childcare with some sprinklings of medical and caregiving. I just accepted a new job offer today as a caregiver!

Physical/ looks:

I am kind of short, I am chubby but curvy with an hourglass figure. I mostly dress goth/emo/alt.

My red flags:

I have a fear of abandonment and PTSD, so open and honest communication is a must. Promises are serious and important to me.

When I fall in love, I fall hard, and I constantly crave the presence of the people that I love. I decided about a year ago that instead of trying to suppress that, I’m going to embrace it and look for people who are at a similar level. It is a major part of who I am as an empath and caregiver and it’s silly to try to pretend I’m someone else.

I have chronic health conditions so some days I can’t be super active and I’d rather just cuddle and awkwardly stare into each others souls. I have narcolepsy type 1 and an undiagnosed chronic pain condition. My child is physically disabled and autistic. Understanding these conditions and what it means to live with them is important.

Dealbreakers: transphobes, homophobes, racists, conservatives, ableism, people who hate kids, people who never want to actually meet up in person, people in hierarchal polyamorous relationships