Asian female in NY, pretty lean and attractive, well-educated and currently feeling ambitious. Not particularly curvy, if that’s what you’re into. I want to learn more and focus on career while balancing work with experiences that make life worth living. I enjoy travel and like to live life to the fullest. I am also interested in fitness-around 120lb and want to drop to 100-110lb and trying to manage in a healthy way (save me).

I am in Manhattan and looking for connections local to my area. I tend to attract high-achieving guys, which is fine but my priority is to find someone with warmth, kindness/empathy, intelligence, and a sense of humor as well. I’m pretty introverted and prefer to meet extroverted people/high social intelligence who would make me feel comfortable and take the lead in social situations although I certain can hold my own. My love languages are quality time and words of affirmation. I’m interested in something for the long-haul, but not just for the time itself-actually investing in a high quality/happy relationship long-term, otherwise it’s not really worth my time.

I tend to like guys who are taller, I’m around 5’5. Looks aren’t everything to me, but I want to meet someone I’m attracted to both in terms of personality and physical appearance. I would also prefer guys around my age or older (32-38). I like museums, exploring NY, movies, laughing, engrossing conversations etc. I would want to meet you in person and am not looking for a virtual relationship. Politically, I’m more left-leaning and intellectually curious. I am kind of spiritual and grew up Christian, similar interests and commonalities are a plus-being Asian is nice similarity, but not needed.

I’m pretty terrible messaging on Reddit as a warning, but I do my best. It will probably get better once I actually know you and meet up/there’s mutual interest.