been a while reddit! I used to come on all the time (kikpals way back then) and I’ve made a lot of friends along these halls.

in fact, even met my ex-wife through a similar sub! Honestly kind of dropped off the face of the earth. and somehow got spat back out. so here I am! I'm back!

so, a little about me: when the pandemic hit, I finally qut smoking ciggies. tried to focus on my health (physical, and try exercising; mental and spiritual. went through a few BIG life experience on the course of this technically, still active pandemic. unfortunately, I've had to cut significant people in my life.. two, I considered best friends of mine. so it's been sad, and kinda lonely. so after some time to heal, I'm trying to find more of my people again!

now in the last couple of years, I've been trying to find myself again, which has been successful so far. I'm finally ready to get back out there. whether it's making some awesome new friends or.. meeting that special someone. I never know these days. I'm open to whatever. I think I'm a great conversationalist. can talk about anything under the sun I'm into music/live shows, reading/poetry (and on certain occasions, consider myself a writer). I think I have a great sense of humor (at 19yo I wanted t9o be a comedian), though I must admit I can be heavy with the dad jokes. passionate about all things psychology, love to make playlists. love me some horror. magnetic poetry. being outside... this list goes on...

and in case you were wondering: I'm SE Asian, 5'6 on a good day. will trade pics if/when you want. have tattoos. no beard. have 1 cat. and a ft job. also, I'm in the east coast. born and raise somewhere else entirely.

shoot me a dm if you think we'll get along. or if ya know, you wanna talk.