I’m looking for a lovely woman who is 31 years old, single, childfree, and who is also emotionally available, empathetic, and open to being vulnerable. If you can handle someone whose primary love languages are quality time, acts of service, and affection (physical touch and/or words of affirmation), I’m your girl.

Here's what I look like (headshot and full body).

Yes, this is a long post--but that's part of the screening process ;) Ideally I'm looking to get to know someone; and if we click, we can hang out over video/voice calls as mini-dates and take it from there! (Preferably on Discord).

What I’m looking for in a relationship and potential partner (in no particular order):

• Physical & emotional chemistry
• Emotional vulnerability and availability
• Someone to share my life with, and to share in my partner’s
• Plenty of affection (physical touch or words of affirmation), both giving and receiving
• A little bit of romance (maybe you’re a romantic at heart or just okay with some sappiness)
• Someone who is okay with couples’ counseling as a means to enhance the relationship, rather than just as a reactive practice
• Strong, lasting friendship and companionship
• Someone to confide in, and for someone who wants to confide in me–the good and the bad, the easy and the difficult
• Someone who knows how to prioritize quality time together while still enjoying their other friendships and hobbies (and likewise, someone who respects my friendships and hobbies)
• Someone who appreciates me for who I am, as I am
• A fellow homebody with an interest in travel and cute dates
• Someone who is creative, even if it’s just a hobby
• Someone who loves handmade gifts
• Someone who appreciates the small things as well as the bigger things (in me, yourself, us, life, etc.)
• Someone who is either sober or who doesn’t drink that often
• Someone who smokes weed or is okay with me doing it
• Someone who appreciates my introvertedness and maybe balances me out with a little extroversion on their part

What I can bring to a relationship and offer a potential partner (in no particular order):

• Patience, empathy, and understanding
• I’m always willing to listen, whether it’s just to let you vent or to give advice if it’s wanted
• A sly wit and quietly surprising sense of humor
• Romance (even if it’s just a little love note tucked away somewhere for you to find)
• Hands-on creativity (from writing, sculpting, and jewelry making, to upcycling furniture and carpentry)
• Affection (words of affirmation or physical touch)
• I’ll do the household chores you don’t like to do
• I will love you for who you are
• Persistence & Insightfulness
• Someone always at the ready to google something just because you mentioned an interest in it
• My wonderful dog, Echo
• I’ll pour my whole heart into making the relationship worthwhile, fulfilling, and safe if you can do the same
• A pro-mental health mindset and attitude (I go to therapy regularly)
• Thoughtful surprise gifts
• Pedicures and foot rubs
• A smoking buddy
• A best friend and life companion
• Someone to try whatever you cook up or bake
• Someone to help water your plants or help with the garden

A Little About Me:

• Likes: making things with my hands (I just wired two lamps), collecting Uranium glass, being creative and artsy, watching horror, listening to music or podcasts, learning (currently brushing up on my Italian), roller skating, reading, writing nerdy stuff, and playing the Switch.
• Lives alone with my deaf dog, Echo.
• Capricorn (sun), Virgo (moon), and Leo (rising).
• AMAB and I've been on HRT (hormone replacement therapy) for 3-4 years.
• I work as a copywriter/content specialist but am currently in between jobs and actively interviewing.

If you actually read this, thank you! Feel free to send me a chat and introduce yourself!