If you are looking for the original post this is a reply to please see it in my profile.

Obviously if I am posting again it means I did not find what I was looking for. Or to be fair, I am not what they are looking for. But I have a few points to add to be more clear:

No, I am not coming over to sit on your 🍆

Yes I am really a girl, born with girl parts and perfectly normal. My insecurity on myself currently does not mean that I am a man.

If your master plan is to fall in love and meet up, that’s cool, but maybe don’t tell me on day 1

If we talk and like each other and have chemistry thats great and let’s see what might happen. But no, I am not looking to get married and have kids tomorrow.

If you don’t know what “daddy vibes” mean then please do not ask or reach out

Bonus points for having a truck and a dog 🐶

If you do not send me a dm and tell me about yourself, I do not have time to drag everything out of you. A nice introduction is great, thank you.

I have changed my age requests as some 35 year old seemed very young. I am now thinking 37-47. A year or so is fine either way, 5-10 is not.

Blue collar, white collar, military, law enforcement, all are welcome. I just happen to work a 9-5 ish and am looking for someone that can mainly talk during that time.

Being “free” to talk only from 10-12pm is a major red flag. Say hi to the wife for me

Being practically divorced but living together for the kids…..um k, no thank you.

The last thing, if you got this far, yes I have a major illness and injury that effects my daily life, hence why I am reaching out, but even though my life is hard right now, I don’t talk about it, complain, blame or get sad over it. It’s just what it is, you’ll probably never hear me say anything about it, it is just where I am at right now.

Lastly, I am not trying to help you help yourself. That sounds bitchy I know, but I am not looking for a weight loss Buddy, but someone that is already doing the things I want to do and can motivate me because they have been there.

Did you get to the end? Here’s a cookie 🍪

PS-sadly posting this does make me sound bitchy but I am sweet as pie. Just ask any of the men that ghosted me 👻