Hi there! I go by Issy, I’m 31, and from around Cincinnati, OH in the USA.

What I’m looking for:

First and foremost, I’m looking for someone who can be my best friend and a fatherly figure. If you don’t want that, then I’m not for you. Age is important to me, and I’m looking for a man who is 40 or older. I just don’t seem to relate to people my own age very well, and have found better connections with older adults.

Besides an amazing friendship, sexual compatibility is also a must. I’m looking for a Daddy Dom who knows how push my buttons and get my motor running. Once we open that can of worms though, I’ll become quite insatiable. That’s you’re fair warning! I would like us to be our own people, and therefore, I’m not looking for a TPE.

I am also interested in women, and I do want to explore that side of myself. I’m not fully for or against Ethical Non-Monogamy or Polyamory, but I am looking to explore with others. If you are strictly looking for a monogamous relationship, and not wanting me to explore, I don’t see us working out.

More about me:

I am a BIGGER GIRL. I like to be upfront about it because it seems to be a deal breaker for a large majority of men here on Reddit. I’m about 5’3, 230lbs and I do have quite the muffin top. If that bothers you in anyway, please move on. I don’t want my heart broken because you thought I “wouldn’t be that fat” or some other nonsense.

I’m can be a bit of a nerd. I enjoy books, arts and crafts, cooking, and watching YouTube. I like to sleep quite a bit, I love animals, and I’m a bit obsessed with all things British.

Hopefully about you:

I would hope that we are semi-close to each other, as in, around the Cincinnati, OH area. I do have anxiety, depression and a chronic condition. I have my moments. I hope that you can accept that and be loving and supportive.

Ideally, you’re single, separated or divorced. If you’re married, good luck. I’ve been down that road and it never seems to work.

If this sounds like something you’re interested in, I’d love to hear from you! Please reach out! I’m excited to meet some new people!