Hi, I hope you're doing well and thank you for taking the time to read my post.

I am looking for a long term relationship with a man. Someone I can talk to and we can actually see a future together. Be each other best friends, have similar values, and goals. Want to grow old together, deal with the ups and downs of life together. So you have to have time to date and if you don’t have time to date it really won't work. Quality time and attention I found is what I really need in my life. Having a relationship with a man who still has goals and knows what he wants in his life would be great.

Young or old doesn’t matter to me. The connection and conversation does. Please take a look at your life and be honest with yourself, do you have the time to put into a relationship? I do but have been finding a lot of men on here that don't have time for one. Meeting a lot of guys who are just all talk and that’s it and have a feeling you too have been running into the same situation.

Some things about me:

Single- over a year now

Monogamous

Straight

No children

Never married ( open to talking about it and have nothing against marriage)

Don’t smoke- not even pot and prefer not to be around someone who does smoke it.

Drinking- 1 or 2 times a year and never been drunk. Alcohol tastes bad to me.

Likes:

• -Camping: once to twice a year and that is because my friend and I go but wouldn’t mind more often. She has a nice tent and said I could use it whenever.
• -Learning new things and growth. Emotionally, physically, and mentally I have goals and things I am passionate about. I am my own person and quite aware of the things around me. You should be too.
• -Hiking: I try to do that from May to September and I am a slow hiker. I like to enjoy what is around me. I don’t do it as a workout. So the longest one I have done is 9 miles and that took us a while to do. Like 6 hours. We brought lunch too.
• -Gym: I work out 5 times a week. I sometimes try to get in at 6 but do at least 5 times a week for about 30 to 1 hour. I am not super in shape. I do this to be healthy and to move. I joined in November 2022 but hadn’t really been in a gym for 3 years due to covid and my location didn’t have very good gyms at the time. I worked out at home and been fairly thin and healthy most of my life.
• -Movies- I am all over the place and enjoy talking about them. So you can just ask if I saw it. I like action, sci-fi, doc, foreign films with subtitles.
• -Music- 50’s, 80’s, alternative, and EDM- motivational videos on Youtube. ( not really into crowds or live music)
• -I do crafts when not working- so enjoy making things by hand and the challenge of learning something new that I can use in art medium. Crafting is a huge part of my life and always looking for things to make/ learn how to make.

Things I like to do:

Travel I haven’t traveled a lot yet. I mean when I was younger I did a lot of travel in like 3 years and then it just stopped and I never traveled again. Financially just wasn’t possible. So I like to learn more about traveling in the future.

You live far…away:

So you live out of State or possibly out of this country. I am looking for something real. So if you're not in a place right now to focus on me. Then it wont work. If you're too busy and you can’t fit me into your life…it wont work. I have met some nice guys here who do live out of state but they have 0 intention of actually ever meeting me and that have no time/ money to even come visit me.

Don’t waste my time.

If you're a busy person you know time is something that is precious. I am here because I don’t come around single men in my everyday life. I haven’t been around a single person in years. Most people assume I am already married and some think I already have kids. I don’t and it’s a bit of a shock to them when I tell them.

So if interested let's start talking and see if we can arrange to meet one another and build a future together. I am a patient person but only to a point and do want to slowly build this together but it takes two of us to do this. Not one person doing all the work.

I look forward to your response.