Would you like to connect to someone who treats you equal, pays attention to you and listen to you? Be a loving partner and a friend, be there for you and mutually share life?

Would you like to wake up to good morning texts, funny memes, good conversations and share stuff which help us grow more?

Would you like to talk with a guy who won't push your boundaries, won't whine or complain about his life, won't use you as a free therapist, would give compliments to your knowledge, your work, your ethics and dreams and not just focus on your physical beauty?

Then please do reach out if you are an open-minded woman, who is passionate in what she does and what she stands for, sound of mind, have energy to talk, put effort and is ambiverted.

I'm an Indian but I believe I do not display any negative stereotype that my ethnicity, culture or nationality may carry. So if those are dealbreakers or if you are apprehensive about talking to someone non-western, I understand and you can ignore this message. I, on the other hand, personally do not have any ethnicity preferences and open to have a partner from any background.

My name is Ven and I'm active in US/UK/Indian timezones as I work as a cyber security software expert serving US Corporations, 7 days a week, 365 days year round. My English is americanised, both vocabulary and accent.

I am a Liberal, ally to women, body positive, stauch Athiest, LGBTQ supporter, 420 friendly guy. So I rather find myself alone ideologically and lifestyle wise because I have values that go against my regressive traditional patriarchal society.

I have and had friends from all genders from various backgrounds and parts of the world. So i am open minded as heck. So I am not judgemental, no preconceived notions or thoughts about anyone in my mind. Matter of fact, I met a lot of wonderful women through this very subreddit.

My hobbies include being a big nerd! haha, I read a lot, subject agnostic, learn about the civilizations, culture, history, languages, food, social norms. I have interest in anthropology and technology. I write poems spontaneously, do watercolor art, read books - subject agnostic.

I cook good and I like learning about cooking and Food is a very happy topic with me.

I have a bit of photographic memory so I speak 5 indian languages apart from English and some Japanese

Funny, enthusiastic, passionate, stoic without toxicity, "rolls sleeves to get the job done" kinda person. I am hardwired to derive happiness when I make my loved ones happy. Not a people pleaser though. I've had relationships before but they didn't workout due to timing and incompatiblity.

I take care of stray cats who visit my apartment for food and water and I nurse them back to health. I wish I could be dog papa but my apartment do not allow to have dogs as pets. All time favourite breed in dogs are German Shepards, Wolfdogs, Shiba and Akita Inu and in cats, I prefer tabbies, maine coons and Egyptian Mau cats.

My current stray Chuki: https://imgur.com/a/VosQRRO

Physically I am an average guy, 5'9" Bald and a thick beard. Fit dadbod with big burly arms. Here's my picture.

https://imgur.com/a/s9xs37W

I'm attracted to women on the heavier side as i genuinely prefer them to be my romantic partners. Not in an unhealthy way though. Just preference borne out of endearment due to positive experiences with them since childhood.

I'm an Aries Sun Leo Moon and Virgo ascendant, if that's an additional info.

I love watching historical, horror and SciFi movies and shows. I don't have Netflix as of now but may install it in the future.

My music taste is varied. I'm an eccentric in musical taste as I listen to all good music, despite languages.

Hope to talk to you soon!